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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: justme19 on December 22, 2009, 04:24:57 AM

Title: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: justme19 on December 22, 2009, 04:24:57 AM
For me it's music, i just have a fantasic conection with music :D
What about you?
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: jesse on December 22, 2009, 04:25:50 AM
i play guitar it is my solitude moment i put on head phones and play
jessica
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: Northern Jane on December 22, 2009, 05:13:56 AM
What gets me through is incredible stubbornness - I just wont quit.

What I do to relax and let go is snuggle my hound. She loves being snuggled and returns the affection so everything else just melts away.
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: Jillieann Rose on December 22, 2009, 05:18:09 AM
Durning tuff times I just try to stay really busy.
That way I don't have time to think about it.
Jillieann
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: Valentina on December 22, 2009, 05:20:50 AM
Reading, studying.
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: Miniar on December 22, 2009, 07:57:41 AM
Music, Drawing, Good Food, My Daughter, My Partner, My Friends, Stubbornnes, And massive doses of painkillers! ;)
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: Naturally Blonde on December 22, 2009, 08:05:08 AM
My partner.
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: FairyGirl on December 22, 2009, 08:20:16 AM
crying and meditation. Oh, and sometimes chocolate.
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: Krissy_Australia on December 22, 2009, 08:42:24 AM
music
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: justme19 on December 22, 2009, 02:59:41 PM
Quote from: FairyGirl on December 22, 2009, 08:20:16 AM
Oh, and sometimes chocolate.
;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: Janet_Girl on December 22, 2009, 03:01:53 PM
Crying, getting my mind distracted by my favorite TV shows, My family here.


Hugs,
Janet
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: rejennyrated on December 22, 2009, 04:44:03 PM
My Partner (that's her in the photo, she is the blonde...) and my uncle Russell (some of you from the UK may just have seen him once or twice...  ;)) who has a lovely villa in Tuscany where I can go to chill out!

(PS - and yes he kind of really IS my uncle... I told you I had a sympathetic extended family.  ;D)
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: NDelible Gurl on December 22, 2009, 04:44:39 PM
music, humor, and stubbornness
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: Hannah on December 22, 2009, 04:51:20 PM
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Note the importance of the Giant Bar, anything less is just a waste. Nothing beats a night of chocolate and Buffy the Vampire Slayer dvds.
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: Hannah on December 22, 2009, 04:54:53 PM
Quote from: Tal-12A7 on December 22, 2009, 04:52:27 PM
Alcohol...


oooooooh yea, and vicodin!
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: rejennyrated on December 22, 2009, 04:58:39 PM
Quote from: Becca on December 22, 2009, 04:54:53 PM

oooooooh yea, and vicodin!

erm... sorry to be dim but what is vicodin?
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: Janet_Girl on December 22, 2009, 05:01:24 PM
Vicodin is a trademarked brand narcotic analgesic product containing hydrocodone and paracetamol (also known as acetaminophen). Vicodin is used to relieve moderate to severe pain.

Good stuff for pain, but addictive.
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: rejennyrated on December 22, 2009, 05:08:19 PM
Quote from: Janet Lynn on December 22, 2009, 05:01:24 PM
Good stuff for pain, but addictive.
Ah! thanks - That expains it. Like I say - sorry to be dim, but I saw it mentioned in a couple of threads and I wondered. I'm a bit of a medical minimalist myself... I don't really like taking even asprin so other than HRT I'm a bit clueless about meds.
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: Janet_Girl on December 22, 2009, 05:21:28 PM
Vinny and I are old friends thanks to my back.  I, personally, don't get high off it but here in the US, it is a Schedule III Controlled Substance.  And was recommended to be banned by the FDA advisory committee on June 30, 2009.  But as of yet the FDA has not banned it.


Janet
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: Hannah on December 22, 2009, 05:57:17 PM
QuoteAbout 124 million prescriptions for Vicodin and its generic equivalents were written in the United States last year

That's just Vicodin, I didn't look up Percocet.

Yeah it's addictive but it also works really well. I would hope the fda would stay out of things and stop trying to idiot-proof the world, because Vicodin has greatly improved the quality of my life. I haven't seen Percocet in action yet, but I will soon.

Honestly if they banned it I would prolly buy it off the street until electro is done, it makes that much difference for me. If anything having to answer to a doctor and running the risk of NOT having it for electro is good motivation not to abuse it.
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: K8 on December 22, 2009, 06:04:11 PM
What gets me through?  Music, silly movies, meditation, and - best of all - friends.  My friends here and IRL have pulled me out of plenty of tough times in the last year.

Thanks, friends. :icon_bunch:

- Kate
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: lauren3332 on December 22, 2009, 07:14:39 PM
Music, Equlibrium is the best.  German folk at it's finest my dear. 
Blut im Auge is a song you can never be depressed to, no matter how bad you feel. 
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: Lachlann on December 22, 2009, 07:22:44 PM
Quote from: Becca on December 22, 2009, 04:51:20 PM
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Note the importance of the Giant Bar, anything less is just a waste. Nothing beats a night of chocolate and Buffy the Vampire Slayer dvds.

Oh you read my mind~.
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: MasterAsh on December 22, 2009, 11:44:58 PM
Ice cream of some chocolate variety (Blue Bell's Fudge Brownie Nut is my favorite, thought it's not always available), alcohol, and the internet.  :)
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: LordKAT on December 23, 2009, 12:57:25 AM
Quote from: MissAshley on December 22, 2009, 11:44:58 PM
Ice cream of some chocolate variety (Blue Bell's Fudge Brownie Nut is my favorite, thought it's not always available), alcohol, and the internet.  :)

double choc fudge ice cream, southern, hershey's dark, ginger ale and internet. yup a feast for heaven( and some sleep)
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: Miniar on December 23, 2009, 06:59:03 AM
Oh.. Meditation does wonders too!
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: Eva Marie on December 23, 2009, 11:30:00 PM
Music, and sleep seem to do the trick (not at the same time!). And sometimes alcohol (hey i'm only human).
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: Kendall on December 24, 2009, 01:04:08 AM
a good book (usually Sci-fi), friends, coffee, music - especially the blues, work, beauty wherever I can see or hear it - and imagining it being very different.

(Vicodin and alcohol scare me - I work to help people recover from the bad effects. But the government telling us how to live scares me too. Not everything that is not ok should be illegal)

I think imagining meditating helps me sometimes too.

Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: Cindy on December 24, 2009, 01:29:23 AM
You lot.
White wine - but I'm giving it up
Shopping
Reading
Leonard Cohen
Working out at the gym with Pink Floyd blasting my ears off through the Ipod.

Cindy
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: Jillieann Rose on December 24, 2009, 10:47:28 PM
Yes good book (usually Sci-fi). That helps me too Kendall.
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: aubrey on December 25, 2009, 06:03:23 AM
Really...really good sex. Merlot. A savings account. Reading something inspirational. The magic of cinema. Watching the sun come up.
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: Jeannette on December 25, 2009, 04:22:59 PM
A bath, a good book, listening to music, sleeping, exercising, talking to the people I love.
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: melanie2009 on December 27, 2009, 11:04:58 AM
Thinking of what the alternatives are. Then I pick myself up and get on with it.
Title: Re: What gets you though tuff times?
Post by: Hannah on December 27, 2009, 04:22:10 PM
Quote from: CindyJames on December 24, 2009, 01:29:23 AMblasting my ears off through the Ipod.

Woo I forgot my iPod. I discovered some Monopoly and Uno apps the other night and now can curl up under the blanket for hours and play games with myself.