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Community Conversation => Non-binary talk => Topic started by: Sevan on January 04, 2010, 08:34:22 PM

Title: What to do...what to do
Post by: Sevan on January 04, 2010, 08:34:22 PM
Hey all.
Here's what I look like masculine: http://i13.photobucket.com/albums/a300/candiussell/fam/crossing/evan12-30-09cl.jpg (http://i13.photobucket.com/albums/a300/candiussell/fam/crossing/evan12-30-09cl.jpg)
and here's what I look like feminine: http://i13.photobucket.com/albums/a300/candiussell/fam/crossing/sarafull12-5-09.jpg (http://i13.photobucket.com/albums/a300/candiussell/fam/crossing/sarafull12-5-09.jpg)
I'm trying to blend a little bit better because these gender extremes...while they feel good, it's taxing. So how can I dress more andro? I work in a professional enviroment so I can't look sloppy. When I'm at home I dress more andro...men's jeans and baggy(ish) shirts. But I totally can't go to work that way. I think I have a very fem face and without the beard there's just no doubt that I'm female. Thoughts?
Title: Re: What to do...what to do
Post by: ICatchDinosaurs on January 04, 2010, 09:26:58 PM
Maybe you should just wear some dress pants and a nice collared shirt.
It's professional and very gender neutral.
Title: Re: What to do...what to do
Post by: Janet_Girl on January 04, 2010, 09:36:41 PM
OMG You look so familiar.   :eusa_wall:

But I agree.  Dress shirt and slacks. 
Title: Re: What to do...what to do
Post by: Sevan on January 04, 2010, 09:44:30 PM
Quote from: Janet Lynn on January 04, 2010, 09:36:41 PM
OMG You look so familiar.   :eusa_wall:

But I agree.  Dress shirt and slacks.

I get that alot. lol. Apparently I have "one of those faces". People swear they know me. *shrugs*
Thanks for the thoughts. I do like mens button up shirts. They're very...my style.

Post Merge: January 04, 2010, 09:49:02 PM

Oh...and I'd like to cut my hair. I've looked at so many "andro" pics of hair that my eyes are spinning and I just can't decide what would look good on my face. Right now it's A-line. Short in back and a touch longer than my ears in front. I like it well enough, but I think it's more fem than andro. Thoughts? Suggestions? Thanks so much