'They stare at you, talk behind your back'
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HER daughter calls her "Fanny-mummy". That's to differentiate her from the woman who gave birth to the girl.
You see, Fanny Ler is actually the girl's biological father. Except that the 35-year-old is now a woman in the making, or in technical terms, a transitioning transgender (TG) woman.
She is on hormonal treatment and is awaiting sexual re-assignment surgery.