Hi Ladies,
I'm Sally, I have been a crossdresser for most of my life, and I'm bisexual. (So not sure if I should be posting here?) During certain periods of my life (Marragies & Military) I couldn't do what felt natural to me and dress up in nice frilly things. :'( I tried telling my last wife about both, but she flipped out and couldn't deal with it, so for the last 15 years I keep it straight and just dressed in mens clothing. :'(
That period is over. :D I have started dressing Fem again. Only at home right now, maybe someday I can get the courage up to go out dressed up.
I came across this site while looking for some good online stores that sell transgender stuff. I was so happy I found this site. I took the next several days reading the forums of all the great ladies stories and hints. Thank you all for this information and stories of coming out. I too one day would like to come out to friends and family, but for now it is my serect to keep.
I was inspired by some of the stories taking little steps at first, that this morning after my normal treatment of shaving (100% hair free except underarms, I haven't figured that out yet without cutting myself all over ;) ) and doing my nails. I picked out a nice matching bra and panties set (yellow, one of my favorite colors) of course wearing them under some jeans and a big sweatshirt I went to the grocery store to pick up some cosmetics. My heart was racing from the time I got out of my car, all the way through my shopping trip. I kept thinking in my mind am I taking to long in front of the lipsticks? :D I got everything I needed and went to pay and the only register that was open was the self checkout ones. Which I have never used before. There was a nice older gentleman there who showed me how to use it. The whole time I'm thinking, he can see the outline of my bra. :D I paid for my items not really caring what it costs, just wanted to get out of there before someone reconized me. Maybe next time I will take more time?
But I just wanted to thank all of you who shared stories in these forums. They gave me the courage I needed to start to take my baby steps back into the world of Fem.
Thank you all,
Sally
I think this place is awesome. When I read stories like yours, I can really feel the power of this community.
It gives me the needed strength and confident to go out shopping. When my heart is beating like a drum, it's relaxing to know that I'm not the only one feeling the same thing.
Welcome to Susan's, Sally. :icon_flower:
There's a lot of good information and good people here. Each of our stories is unique but we have a lot in common. Settle in, pull up a keyboard, and explore.
Be sure to look under the Announcements heading. There you will find the rules we live by in this little world of ours: "Site Terms of Service and Rules to Live By", "Standard Terms and Definitions", and "Post Ranks". Look through the other stuff there, too.
I was a cross-dresser for 56 years. Neither of my wives were crazy about it. I finally stopped cross-dressing when I started living full time as Kate. Now I never cross-dress because I really don't like male clothing. ;)
Happy exploring. :icon_wave:
- Kate
Hi Sally, new my self I think I know how you fee. I am still working up to shopping crossdressed. I have over come the worry of going out with the under garments under my clothes though, thanks to SarahLouise (there just clothes). I need major help with hair and face makeup.
Hi Sally, :icon_wave:
Welcome to our little family. Over 4200 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another member. :icon_hug:
And be sure to check out these links ( MUST READS )
- Site Terms of Service and rules to live by (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html)
- Standard Terms and Definitions (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,54369.0.html)
- Post Ranks ( including when you can upload an avatar) (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,114.0.html.)
Hugs and Love,
Janet
Thanks all, this site seems to be full of very helpfull people.
BTW Janet I love your outfit in your avatar picture :eusa_clap: Where did you get that blouse?
QuoteBTW Janet I love your outfit in your avatar picture Where did you get that blouse?
Actually a girlfriend gave it to me, because it did not fit her anymore. She is bigger in the boobs than I am. :D For once I am glad I have small boobs.
Hi Sally :)
Nice to make your acquaintance... Welcome to Susan's
{{{HUGS}}} - Virginia