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Title: Sex and the Smithie: Where do the femmes fit in?
Post by: Shana A on March 04, 2010, 11:43:20 AM
Sex and the Smithie: Where do the femmes fit in?
Issue date: 3/4/10

http://www.smithsophian.com/home/index.cfm?event=displayArticlePrinterFriendly&uStory_id=9388e132-58dc-455e-af82-239c5fb07811 (http://www.smithsophian.com/home/index.cfm?event=displayArticlePrinterFriendly&uStory_id=9388e132-58dc-455e-af82-239c5fb07811)

Close your eyes. Now think of a queer Smithie. Does your Smithie wear dresses? Have long hair? High heels? Chandelier earrings? Is she a math major? If you feel as I do, your typical queer Smithie has short hair and some facial piercings, rocks the skinny jeans and not the skirts and is a SWAG major - although I am not saying that all SWAG majors are queer or that SWAG is not an important discipline.

While I fully support all gender and style expression and the right to wear what one pleases, I feel that this is a very butch/androgynous-friendly queer community that isn't as open to those of us who love girls, but who also love our long hair, dresses that show off our curves and math, psychology, Italian or basically any major other than the study of women and gender. Where is our place within the queer community at Smith?
Title: Re: Sex and the Smithie: Where do the femmes fit in?
Post by: tekla on March 04, 2010, 02:00:39 PM
Interesting, considering that few here have the grades to get into Smith, much less the money.
Title: Re: Sex and the Smithie: Where do the femmes fit in?
Post by: placeholdername on March 04, 2010, 02:01:47 PM
Quote from: tekla on March 04, 2010, 02:00:39 PM
Interesting, considering that few here have the grades to get into Smith, much less the money.

Here being where?
Title: Re: Sex and the Smithie: Where do the femmes fit in?
Post by: tekla on March 04, 2010, 02:07:55 PM
Here, being here, where few of the FtMs have enough for the T shots, or the therapy, much less the $50K per year that Smith charges.  And I'm not even going to get into the grades which are pretty much the top .5% of the country, and that's not from public schools.
Title: Re: Sex and the Smithie: Where do the femmes fit in?
Post by: placeholdername on March 04, 2010, 02:12:34 PM
I don't know what FTMs have to do with going to a women's college, but I wouldn't be so quick to dismiss who does or doesn't have the grades to get into a place like that.
Title: Re: Sex and the Smithie: Where do the femmes fit in?
Post by: tekla on March 04, 2010, 02:50:40 PM
It's a world so ratified that most would never even glimpse it, much less be a part of it.  It's hardly mainstream.  It's people who would pay millions for a wedding, because that's just an investment.
Title: Re: Sex and the Smithie: Where do the femmes fit in?
Post by: placeholdername on March 04, 2010, 03:08:24 PM
I don't really know what you're talking about now.