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Title: I've noticed
Post by: PaulyD on March 05, 2010, 01:46:25 AM
I tend to only post things when Im in a bad mood or fighting with Davis, but I just wanted to post and say things are actually pretty good right now, still gettin used to everything involved with transitioning, but I'm proud to say that I've come to realize that my love for him wasn't dependent on his gendered, but not really that, more so that I've kinda always seen him as the "man" in this relationship and now its exciting to see him become the man he always has been.

I cant tell the future nor can i predict my future feelings but for the most part right now I'm happy. :) and I just wanted to post something that shows me not always complaining lol because I know i do plenty of that!! lol :P
Title: Re: I've noticed
Post by: hkgurl1480 on March 05, 2010, 02:33:51 AM

Today is a good day....you've made me smile  :)

Title: Re: I've noticed
Post by: PaulyD on March 05, 2010, 02:52:11 AM
:) thanks for reading and i'm glad i could make you smile. The good days sometimes seem to be to far and few sometimes (not always but sometimes) and its nice to appreciate the good ones :-)
Title: Re: I've noticed
Post by: hkgurl1480 on March 05, 2010, 02:56:55 AM
I find i really do appreciate the good ones the most right after a bad one, like i had on Monday but thats another story... :P
Title: Re: I've noticed
Post by: PaulyD on March 05, 2010, 03:26:53 AM
Agreed. I find bad days i tend to pile on the bad so not only is it an initial bad day but i make it like a million times worse if that makes sense? :icon_blahblah: i tend to ramble. lol.

So i really try to appreciate the good days and I must say its been a fairly good week. coming off a fairly bad week. So its that much sweeter   :icon_dance:

Title: Re: I've noticed
Post by: DavisJ86 on March 05, 2010, 03:19:06 PM
Quote from: PaulyD on March 05, 2010, 01:46:25 AM
I tend to only post things when Im in a bad mood or fighting with Davis, but I just wanted to post and say things are actually pretty good right now, still gettin used to everything involved with transitioning, but I'm proud to say that I've come to realize that my love for him wasn't dependent on his gendered, but not really that, more so that I've kinda always seen him as the "man" in this relationship and now its exciting to see him become the man he always has been.

I cant tell the future nor can i predict my future feelings but for the most part right now I'm happy. :) and I just wanted to post something that shows me not always complaining lol because I know i do plenty of that!! lol :P

I've done my fair share of complaining too. But I'm glad we're getting to some better days.
Title: Re: I've noticed
Post by: K8 on March 05, 2010, 05:01:17 PM
I really glad you are having a good day.  The world just seems to be a better place when things are going right.

Gender affects almost every aspect of our lives, but there is more to us than our gender.  I'm glad you two are getting along. :icon_flower:

- Kate
Title: Re: I've noticed
Post by: PaulyD on March 05, 2010, 05:26:20 PM
Quote from: K8 on March 05, 2010, 05:01:17 PM


Gender affects almost every aspect of our lives, but there is more to us than our gender.  I'm glad you two are getting along. :icon_flower:

- Kate

Thanks :) and very true there is so much more to everyone than gender. Most times I feel its only society that it makes a difference what gender we are/and what gender we are attracted to. Without Societies narrow minded views the world would be much better off...I'm sure there's a better way to put this but yea.

Anyways, Davis you never complain, at least not to me, but I agree I'm glad were moving forward.."Keep Moving Forward" :)
Title: Re: I've noticed
Post by: DavisJ86 on March 05, 2010, 06:23:42 PM
Quote from: PaulyD on March 05, 2010, 05:26:20 PM
Anyways, Davis you never complain, at least not to me, but I agree I'm glad were moving forward.."Keep Moving Forward" :)

I may not complain but I have my stress, but yeah Keep Movin Forward.....lol
Title: Re: I've noticed
Post by: MyKa on March 06, 2010, 11:18:34 PM
Congrats on the great day, i wish the best of luck to the both of you!!!!!
Title: Re: I've noticed
Post by: PaulyD on March 07, 2010, 12:15:38 AM
Thanks dear, I wish the best of luck to you as well :)