I have been doing great since my SRS 3 monthes ago and have been moving on with my life not looking back.My mom and sister say I am a better person now.Miy sister and I are very close and have been since I began my transition 3 years ago.At work is going great,my co workers have been saying I am the same person with a new indentity.Dating is going very well and I am in a relationship now,have a boyfriend Brad in my life.He says that he loves me regardless and I did come out to him about it.I am the first transwoman he has ever dated and loves it.He knows I do not go thorugh what GG women go through.We even had sex for the first time last night and it was great.We talked about having sex and agreed on it.I did get good news yesterday too,my mom has met a new man in her life that love me regardless and has taken me into his life too.His name is Rick and has been taught not to judge anyone.The worst part is my brother James and I do not talk anymore,he ignores me when I come over to see my mom.My sister and my mom have talked him into working things out and will not yet.My mom and sister have had it with him ignoring me and this is what is tearing the family up.I am getting sick and tired of it too
Congrats on your success and happiness
Thanks and I admit I have known the changes.Since after my transition,I take little bit longer to get ready which is an half an hour longer and urinating a lot differant,sitting down.I have figured out my sexuality too,I am bi and my boyfriend is very supportive of this
Awesome, I'm glad things are working out for you. :)
It seems like your brother James has turned to the dark side. In time he will see the error of joining the Dark side. Dark places of silence and confusion are found in the dark side.
On a lighter note its great to see the rest of your family treating you well. May the Force be with you and them.
i'm really happy for you .your brother though might think he lost you or something , maybe he's just confused about it and thinks you changed as a person , just give it time and do what you can with him , if he don't talk to you it's really his loss
you mother and sister are so cool though , they deserve your love more if he don't want it
hope things work out fine
My brother James has decided to work things out with me finally.It starts on Monday and seeing a therapist.He felt that he put me down and knows that is wrong.My sister and my mom talked him into this finally and realized he is tearing the family up
That's great news! Hopefully the two of you can come out of it even closer and stronger.
That is the good news and we have been talking ever since.My brother has been calling me Cassandra now and I am proud of him for that.He agrees seeing a therapist will help us work things out and knows also tearing the family has been a big pain that needs to stop.
that's nice , then everything is going to be ok , although me and my brother are close but i know he's not going to accept it no matter what if he knew , i'm so happy for you and i hope everything is always ok
My brother is coming to terms I am this way and was never happy as a boy in my childhood.I had a rough childhood being picked on
Quote from: Natalie3174 on March 25, 2010, 12:07:56 AM
It seems like your brother James has turned to the dark side. In time he will see the error of joining the Dark side. Dark places of silence and confusion are found in the dark side.
On a lighter note its great to see the rest of your family treating you well. May the Force be with you and them.
I see that the force is strong with you Natatlie, lol.
Hi Cassandra, just wanted to say, GREAT NEWS.
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