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Community Conversation => Transitioning => Real-Life Experience => Topic started by: Dana Lane on April 05, 2010, 01:39:56 PM

Title: Wore skirt to work for first time today!
Post by: Dana Lane on April 05, 2010, 01:39:56 PM
I started presenting full time as a woman a couple of months before I actually went full time but always had a phobia of wearing a skirt (in public). This weekend I went dancing with a girl I work with and she asked me if I was ever going to start wearing skirts. So this morning I figured what the hell. Glad I did! I fleetingly pass as a female so people do double takes,stare, etc all the time and I figured well, I get stares anyways!

To me this is another milestone I have crossed. Yippee!
Title: Re: Wore skirt to work for first time today!
Post by: Constance on April 05, 2010, 01:49:51 PM
Congrats!
Title: Re: Wore skirt to work for first time today!
Post by: cynthialee on April 05, 2010, 01:59:32 PM
Congrats!
Title: Re: Wore skirt to work for first time today!
Post by: Janet_Girl on April 05, 2010, 02:48:02 PM
Good for you Dana.  We were discouraged from wearing skirts or dresses at my old job.  We had to climb ladders and do heavy lifting.  A little embarrassing to due in a skirt, anyway.
Title: Re: Wore skirt to work for first time today!
Post by: Autumn on April 05, 2010, 05:09:26 PM
Quote from: Janet Lynn on April 05, 2010, 02:48:02 PM
Good for you Dana.  We were discouraged from wearing skirts or dresses at my old job.  We had to climb ladders and do heavy lifting.  A little embarrassing to due in a skirt, anyway.

Yeah... where I work it'd be completely impractical to wear heels or a skirt/dress. So I'm wearing the same clothes I always wore since I've worn womens' casuals at work for years. Well, plus a bra.
Title: Re: Wore skirt to work for first time today!
Post by: Radar on April 05, 2010, 08:42:19 PM
I'm glad your work was accepting of it and it was a good experience for you, even though I hate skirts. :)
Title: Re: Wore skirt to work for first time today!
Post by: Dana Lane on April 06, 2010, 08:39:24 AM
Quote from: Valeriedances on April 05, 2010, 09:17:48 PM
I remember how exciting and rewarding it was, to finally be seen in clothes at work that match heart and body. To finally show a figure and legs with clothes that clearly say, I am a woman, a beautiful woman ...without apology or compromise. Of course it is a milestone. You have arrived, don't underestimate the statement it makes to yourself and to them. You are beautiful and proud and stand tall in your skirt. You have not only crossed the milestone, but you have blown the doors off their hinge. You are there, good for you.

Such nice words to describe it! Thank you!!!
Title: Re: Wore skirt to work for first time today!
Post by: BlackWolf on April 06, 2010, 10:44:25 AM
Congradulations!!!! I remember the first time I wore a suit. It was the greatest feeling on the planet. Oh so comfortable!
Title: Re: Wore skirt to work for first time today!
Post by: Sandy on April 06, 2010, 02:54:23 PM
In aviation terms that would be called breaking the skirt barrier!

Fun ain't it?

Congratulations Dana!

-Sandy (ka-BOOOM!!!)
Title: Re: Wore skirt to work for first time today!
Post by: Constance on April 06, 2010, 03:00:49 PM
Quote from: Sandy on April 06, 2010, 02:54:23 PM
breaking the skirt barrier!
There's an inappropriate joke in those words, I'm sure of it.
Title: Re: Wore skirt to work for first time today!
Post by: Julie Marie on April 06, 2010, 03:12:48 PM
Way to go girl!  Now you have to go dancing in it!
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Title: Re: Wore skirt to work for first time today!
Post by: Nicky on April 06, 2010, 03:39:03 PM
You keep going girl!
Well done, that must have been scary the first time.

I love wearing skirts, I like the feel of them, how they move, how they make your hips look, how they flare out when you twirl, how you have to hold some of them down on windy days, bare legs in the breeze. Just brings me a sense of pleasure for some reason.