Am not sure how to phrase this, but my issue and question is going to be hard to phrase.
I am not sure where I fit into the male-female continuum, but it definitely moving as time goes by. First let me say I am 60 and have discovered that there have been lots of things buried.
My attempts and experiments in the past with men have never truly felt right and comfortable, yet curious.
Now as I have been dressing and letting the feminine feels out I am wanting to meet and see if this is real or not. Totally 'coming out', will never be possible for family reasons.
When I visit with possible guys via the online sites, I seldom get very far. First I am older than most so that crosses off 80% or more.
The biggest problem is when I am up front and say I want and need to be treated as a woman ONLY. The answer is virtually always "Oh Yea....I would love to play with (followed by all the ways they just want to use my male genitals)".......
HEY! didn't I just tell you I am ready and wanting to be your 'girlfriend', always assuming being somewhat compatible.
I am sexually submissive, even enjoy BDSM, but as a woman, NOT a man!
Seems all that is really wanted, is a man in panties.......Am not sure if I am just venting or asking questions about where to look and how to talk...
If your on a sex personals website... that's pretty much what your gonna get. Try OKCupid maybe?