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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: scarboroughfair on May 29, 2010, 06:40:02 AM

Title: Your hang ups end up in possible despair
Post by: scarboroughfair on May 29, 2010, 06:40:02 AM
A couple of years ago I went to a "Pride in the park" thing with transgender michigan.

Such a variety of people! All very beautiful.

Some of the girls I talked to were drop dead gorgeous and 100% passable! But they lacked one crucial thing. Personality. They were too hung up about being born as a guy and constantly lived in a perpetual cycle of THINKING about being a girl rather than living life. They were "Nitpicking" everything in themselves trying to conform to society's image of a woman rather than just living life!

I thought I was bad, not that I'm better than them. But personality and persona has riches all its own! That theory was proven in the 90's. I could pick a guy up and get dates with no problem when I didn't know I was a transgender. EXCUSE ME, "Transgender person". When I learned I was actually a girl it complicated things and I started nit picking things and trying to conform! It's bull->-bleeped-<-! lol Just being myself brought more happiness than trying to conform to a gender or a prisoner of society's vision of a female as a whole. Get the point?

Fine, I'm a girl with a dick! Fine, what ever! Move on! 

That's the theory I'm running with now. What worked before in ignorance seems to work now. It's not about what I don't or do have, it's about FUN!!!

I'm getting rid of my beard and fixing my teeth, that may be all I need to be happy!

Because I'm not in pursuit of a vagina doesn't lesson me as a girl, if you think it does you may be the one who is miserable. Would I like a vagina of my own? YES! But what the hell can I do about it! Prostitution? Depression? Life's to short for that drama.

Title: Re: Your hang ups end up in possible despair
Post by: aisha on May 29, 2010, 06:46:16 AM
you're hung up.. ur stoned listen to frank zappa... eat ointments.. let the wierdo faeries carry ya away.. shine light on mooseballs cha