Okay, here's my situation (I have previous posts but I haven't really given you enough information about my situation.)
So, I think I've been depressed, I don't know, I hate every masculine aspect about me. I always insult my adams apple or my shoulders around my mother (however I also complain about my weight, I really just want to stay at 115lbs:P) My mother once asked me: Well, do you feel like you need to be a girl? Is that what it is?
And her question seemed quite reassuring, she seemed welcoming and calm about a positive response.
But sometimes I complain about how boring male clothing options are and I'll say something like: Boy clothes are so boring!
And my mother will say something like: As opposed to what?
That makes me a little worried about her response, like how she'll always ask me: Don't you want to grow up to be a tall handsome boy? *Imagine me internally pulling out my hair and foaming at the mouth as she asks me this*
What I'm trying to get at is, how do I tell her. I always ask her to take me to a therapist, and I was thinking hopefully they would help me figure out a way of telling her. Also, I thought of trying writing a letter and giving her some space and time.
And then there's the obstacle of my father. I have no idea what I'm going to do with that every-thing-he-doesn't-like-phobic man.
Thing is, I need both their support because I really want to start HRT as soon as possible.
Anyways, here's hoping you can give me some help.
Madison
It's a tough road no matter how we travel it. I think your instinct is good with Mom. She's opening the door to a dialogue. Plus, parents know. Even if they don't want to admit it to themselves. They know. "Maybe I do" (wanna be a girl) might be my answer. But it really is a situation I am NOT qualified to advise anyone in. I'd look for a way to get a professional involved. Maybe a really accessible guidance counselor at school, or investigate LGBT organizations in your area for free counseling.
You're so lucky to be aware of yourself while your still young!
Much love,
Jill
I agree with Jill, it sounds like your mother is dropping hints, to see what your attitude is without being confronting.