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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: harlee on June 08, 2010, 06:14:42 AM

Title: Being a boy is way more fun than being a girl!
Post by: harlee on June 08, 2010, 06:14:42 AM
Way way way way way way way more fun! ;D

As a girl I always felt I had to wear pretty clothes, even tho I wasnt interested  ::) I always felt I had to keep my hair neat and tidy, and it always continuously annoyed me as I tried to have it as straight as anything! I never had a boyfriend and just didnt feel myself. I used to feel ugly every single day  :-\ I pretty much got to the point where I didnt really care about myself anymore.

Now I feel so happy! I feel like I can express myself way better! 8) Going out places and hanging with friends is way more fun! Ive had 2 girlfriends since becoming male - even tho they didnt last long  :-X Finally kissed someone and felt awesome about it. Spoiled girls, it feels so good! I can like what I see in the mirror now! And actually take pride in doing my hair and buying clothes! Even being thought of being a real bio-boy makes me happy!

It feels especially great when you can hear the hott girls inline for a theme park ride just in front of you, calling you a guy and he. They were looking at me, smiling and jokingly said "call me", pretty much flirting for the whole 5 minutes  :P it was so fun! So much more fun than being a girl ever was!!!!  ;D
Title: Re: Being a boy is way more fun than being a girl!
Post by: aydan_boy on June 08, 2010, 08:29:54 AM
Totally. Being a girl is so restricting.
Title: Re: Being a boy is way more fun than being a girl!
Post by: barbie on June 08, 2010, 12:01:23 PM
As an m2f crossdress, what I can say is that being a girl is more fun than being a boy!

Barbie~~
Title: Re: Being a boy is way more fun than being a girl!
Post by: LordKAT on June 08, 2010, 12:51:33 PM
All a matter of opinion.
Title: Re: Being a boy is way more fun than being a girl!
Post by: kyril on June 08, 2010, 01:13:21 PM
I know Harlee, it's so much fun, girls actually talk to me/flirt with me now, I feel like I look good for once in my life, I get treated with respect, I'm motivated to take care of myself. Everything you said (except the girlfriends, I'll pass :P)
Title: Re: Being a boy is way more fun than being a girl!
Post by: Wendy1974 on June 08, 2010, 01:24:17 PM
Hooray for being seen as the right gender! Hooray for being flirted with by the oposite sex (whether your into the opposite sex or not it's still very validating :)! And hooray for you Harlee! I love it when people have happy stuff like this to report. We can be a gloomy lot sometimes so this is always nice to read :)

Wendy xx
Title: Re: Being a boy is way more fun than being a girl!
Post by: zombiesarepeaceful on June 08, 2010, 01:25:14 PM
I would imagine that to a ftm, finally presenting as male is fun, and to a mtf, finally presenting as female is fun.
Title: Re: Being a boy is way more fun than being a girl!
Post by: Silver on June 08, 2010, 01:30:38 PM
Yep yep, the feeling of letting up is great. I used to feel like I had to put up a kind of female act for people. Now I don't have to care if people will question my femininity. Never really got to just relax before, I was always tense.
Title: Re: Being a boy is way more fun than being a girl!
Post by: James42 on June 08, 2010, 05:01:54 PM
I agree. Even just the little things feel great, like when my girl friends are taking forever to get ready for something, I can rush them and they'll say "you don't have to worry about makeup and hair, you're a guy" lol
Title: Re: Being a boy is way more fun than being a girl!
Post by: elvistears on June 08, 2010, 06:44:58 PM
That's awesome Harlee! Nothing like being flirted with for the old self esteem. I got called sir twice yesterday and it made me so happy.

I am having so much more fun as a boy.  I feel like I've let my guard down so much, I can actually have a good time and make out with anyone I want!
Title: Re: Being a boy is way more fun than being a girl!
Post by: Cindy on June 09, 2010, 04:26:40 AM
Is this a statement that the grass can be green on both sides of the fence :laugh:

Glad you are happy guy, enjoy; 'cos I'm a happy girl :-*

Cindy