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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: GamerJames on June 25, 2010, 05:13:53 PM

Title: Best. Email. EVAR!! :D
Post by: GamerJames on June 25, 2010, 05:13:53 PM
You guys, I'm totally grinning ear-to-ear right now. I feel like I'm practically drunken with glee!

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fsphotos.ak.fbcdn.net%2Fhphotos-ak-snc3%2Fhs537.snc3%2F30476_132457090117166_100000586268049_255942_285403_n.jpg&hash=2e0d272521e03f41d776b254709a6c8d76b8bb17)

P.S. No buzzkillin' on my birth name, cool?  :P
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Post by: cynthialee on June 25, 2010, 05:23:19 PM
yay!
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Post by: spacial on June 25, 2010, 05:27:47 PM
Wow. Nice.

Keep grinning, you deserve it.  ;D
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Post by: Al James on June 25, 2010, 06:27:52 PM
Thats nice. In fact thats really good. Way to go, James
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Post by: GamerJames on June 25, 2010, 06:30:30 PM
Thanks everyone! I posted the screenshot on my Facebook as well and I've had so many awesome comments from friends and family. And I've already received several really nice emails from coworkers as well (even though it was sent right at the end of our work day and I didn't expect to hear anything - if at all - til Monday). I'm positively giddy.

Now to head home and watch zombie movies! Friday FTW! :D
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Post by: Greg on June 25, 2010, 06:31:24 PM
Congrats James. Seems like your workplace is very accepting.

Also I like the "Have a fabulous weekend" part of the email.

Fabulous, Daahhhhhling.
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Post by: Arch on June 25, 2010, 06:34:39 PM
This is fantastic. But don't be surprised if someone takes the "any questions" part to mean ANY questions at all, no matter how personal. You know what I'm getting at...::)
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Post by: Elijah3291 on June 25, 2010, 06:45:55 PM
awesome I hope everyone takes it well!

what zombie movies you gonna watch?
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Post by: Shang on June 25, 2010, 06:49:47 PM
That's awesome!

And your birth name is my birth name XD
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Post by: owl on June 25, 2010, 06:59:50 PM
Awesome james! i'm so happy for you!
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Post by: Crypt77 on June 25, 2010, 09:54:44 PM
Congrats James! That's great!

And a fellow graphic designer. Awesome!
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Post by: GamerJames on June 25, 2010, 11:06:25 PM
Greg: She's totally just a straight chick, and she uses the "fabulous" thing all the time, but yeah I found that funny too. ;D

Arch: The thing is, I'm known for my "TMI" moments, and I am really REALLY open to questions and educating people. So there's really nothing they could ask that I haven't already been asked, and comfortably answered, a dozen times already!

Elijah: I ended up busy recording my first YouTube vid (eek!) which is uploading as we speak. I'll put on a movie soon, probably either Dawn of the Dead, Shaun of the Dead, or Resident Evil, depending upon my mood when I actually get off my butt to put it on. lol

Shang: Thanks. And yeah, we were two of about a zillion with that name, haha.

Damian: Thanks, I really appreciate it. :)

Chris: My gender specialist actually said that he was amazed how many FTMs are graphic designers. Like a statistically significant number of us. Crazy, hey?
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Post by: Shang on June 25, 2010, 11:11:13 PM
I dunno....I think 'Sara' is more common that 'Sarah'...and last I checked...it's barely in the 100 names xD
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Post by: Jamie-o on June 25, 2010, 11:13:45 PM
Congrats, James.  It's nice to see you moving forward.
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Post by: GamerJames on June 25, 2010, 11:16:33 PM
Shang: the year I was born (back when people tied onions to their belts, as it was the style at the time...), Sarah was the #1 name on the list. Fo'realz.

Jamie: Thanks, it's really nice to not feel stuck in limbo. :)
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Post by: Shang on June 25, 2010, 11:18:53 PM
Quote from: NES_junkie_James on June 25, 2010, 11:16:33 PM
Shang: the year I was born (back when people tied onions to their belts, as it was the style at the time...), Sarah was the #1 name on the list. Fo'realz.


Well, then...I think it wasn't a very common name when I was born.  At least, I've never encountered many 'Sarah's running around.
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Post by: GamerJames on June 25, 2010, 11:26:14 PM
It might also be a "where you live" kind of thing. I'm in Canada. Who knows if that makes any difference though. But yeah, back in 1979 it was the #1 name.

EDIT: And I should add, every year in school there were multiple Sarahs in my class.
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Post by: Lachlann on June 25, 2010, 11:59:04 PM
The name Sarah was popular to name your kid in the late 80's in Canada as well. I know so many Sarah's, haha.
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Post by: Michael Joseph on June 26, 2010, 12:12:53 AM
Thats so awesome!! I alway wonder how my work will take it when I come out.
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Post by: Hermione01 on June 26, 2010, 12:30:39 AM
Definitely awesome. Sounds like a great workplace.  :)
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Post by: Shadowlyc on June 26, 2010, 12:31:41 AM
That's awesome! :D
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Post by: Turtle on June 26, 2010, 04:22:15 AM
That's great, James. You should frame a copy of your email to make you smile every time you see it - maybe on the back of the bathroom door so you can read while you....contemplate.

Just be glad you weren't called Victoria  >:(
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Post by: Jamie on June 26, 2010, 06:44:04 AM
Congrats!
I'm really happy for you! :)
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Post by: sneakersjay on June 26, 2010, 07:21:36 AM
My workplace did something similar, and nobody really asked me any questions at all.  Just changed names and pronouns.

Congrats!

Jay
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Post by: Nathan. on June 26, 2010, 11:11:12 AM
Thats awesome, congrats  ;D
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Post by: GamerJames on June 26, 2010, 01:01:23 PM
Thanks everyone! And Jay, the questions have already started, lol. We're a really tightly-knit group though, so I knew there would be much discussion. And I'm cool with that. :)
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Post by: Radar on June 29, 2010, 08:52:38 PM
Quote from: NES_junkie_James on June 25, 2010, 11:06:25 PMMy gender specialist actually said that he was amazed how many FTMs are graphic designers. Like a statistically significant number of us. Crazy, hey?

For real? I'm one too. :P
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Post by: GamerJames on June 29, 2010, 08:58:12 PM
Quote from: Radar on June 29, 2010, 08:52:38 PM
For real? I'm one too. :P

See! We're everywhere! lol

But yeah, he was totally sincere and said that he was quite frankly amazed at how many of us FTMs are designers or vice versa. Which made me think, is it that a disproportionate number of designers are FTMs, or that a disproportionate number of FTMs are designers... Ya know what I mean?
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Post by: ScaredKiwi on July 07, 2010, 12:10:52 AM
:D Wow!! I hope something exciting as that happens to me.  :angel:
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Post by: Lachlann on July 07, 2010, 12:17:09 AM
Quote from: GamerJames on June 29, 2010, 08:58:12 PM
See! We're everywhere! lol

But yeah, he was totally sincere and said that he was quite frankly amazed at how many of us FTMs are designers or vice versa. Which made me think, is it that a disproportionate number of designers are FTMs, or that a disproportionate number of FTMs are designers... Ya know what I mean?
It might just be the art field in general too. I swear I see quite a number of FTMs on art sites.