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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: notyouraverageguy on July 26, 2010, 05:53:53 PM

Title: I have something to smile about today.
Post by: notyouraverageguy on July 26, 2010, 05:53:53 PM
I went shopping with my mom, again. Yes I know I need to avoid social situations with her &my family, but I can't.
Well it was after our workout, so I was in just whatever clothes.
And I have pretty good gaydar, we've been to this small place before &I read the guy as gay/bi.
So today he spoke to me (in spanish) saying "mijo".. I just shook my head &smiled.. And guess what!
My mom didn't out me, she didn't use pronouns or try to "correct" him.
Its crazy cause I've been down &not too confident, &I was dressed whatever.. And the guy seen me as male. He saw me as younger than him, even though im probably around his age, but still.
Title: Re: I have something to smile about today.
Post by: Squirrel698 on July 26, 2010, 06:08:11 PM
Hey good on you man!  It's always great to pass especially with someone you find attractive.  Then it's like the heavens have opened up believe me.  Whenever I want to feel high for days I just go to a gay bar and bask.  lol 

I'm really glad your Mother was able to stay out of it for once.  It really isn't her affair if it doesn't bother you. 
Title: Re: I have something to smile about today.
Post by: notyouraverageguy on July 26, 2010, 06:20:34 PM
Thanks.
Yeah, I was already expecting her to out me. But luckily she didn't!