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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: Angel On Acid on July 27, 2010, 06:40:57 PM

Title: Handwriting
Post by: Angel On Acid on July 27, 2010, 06:40:57 PM
Stereotypically there is feminine handwriting, which is neat and tidy and masculine handwriting that is rough and messy.

Has anyone tried to change their handwriting to match the gender that they identify with, or has it not been a problem?

Personally, my handwriting is terrible, and if i do transition then I would try my best to improve it.
Title: Re: Handwriting
Post by: Shang on July 27, 2010, 06:48:06 PM
I haven't tried to change it.  My handwriting changes on its own depending on my mood and what type of writing instrument I'm using.  It goes from large and neat to thin and scrawling.
Title: Re: Handwriting
Post by: spacial on July 27, 2010, 06:59:51 PM
I really like to change my handwriting to anything that is legible.

I think faster than I can write clearly.  :D And I can't spell to save myself.

Title: Re: Handwriting
Post by: Vanessa_yhvh on July 27, 2010, 07:08:45 PM
Writing by hand has always been unpleasant business in my book. Pencils & pens I grip stiffly, and my hand hurts after a while of use.

I find writing such a daunting task that my big aspiration is to arrive at some consistent scrawl I can use for a signature and just take advantage of my swift typing speed.
Title: Re: Handwriting
Post by: Janet_Girl on July 27, 2010, 07:16:20 PM
Ever since I can remember people have told me I write like a girl.  ;D

Which is fine by me.
Title: Re: Handwriting
Post by: spinaltap on July 27, 2010, 07:37:26 PM
I don't think it matters. In elementary school we always use to decide who's handwriting was girly and who's wasn't, and if we had graphed gender against handwriting (neatness), there wouldn't have been much of a correlation. But, if you want to work on it, I believe girly handwriting is stereotypically curvier with loops and such. Can you write well in cursive. Maybe switch to that. But again, I don't think it matters.
Title: Re: Handwriting
Post by: GeminiBoy on July 27, 2010, 10:45:05 PM
I have okay-looking handwriting, but I always say it's "guy handwriting" (which I'm totally happy with) so I have no need to change my handwriting to match my gender, because it's already there :)
Title: Re: Handwriting
Post by: AmySmiles on July 27, 2010, 10:57:12 PM
Mine is small and very legible, with a style somewhere between standard lettering and cursive.  Both men and women often tell me they're jealous of my handwriting, but I don't think it lends itself to a particular gender stereotype;  if anything, it's androgynous.
Title: Re: Handwriting
Post by: Michael Joseph on July 27, 2010, 11:05:21 PM
All my life i have been told i write like a boy. Ive tried to write neat and bubbly like a girl but i just cant.. so no i wouldn't have to change it.
Title: Re: Handwriting
Post by: rexgsd on July 27, 2010, 11:14:44 PM
i agree with michaeljay =P
and my handwritings always been messy and rough and usually illegible haha
Title: Re: Handwriting
Post by: Britney♥Bieber on July 27, 2010, 11:16:32 PM
I've adapted my penmanship skills quite a few times. I always loved cute handwriting some girls had in hs so I tried to mimic them because it was cute. So I guess it's fine by now haha
Title: Re: Handwriting
Post by: JessicaR on July 28, 2010, 12:04:41 AM
I never really thought about it until I recently came across some notebooks from Junior High... My handwriting used to be all loopy and backhanded..very girly!.. I even used little circles to dot my "i"s and "j"s. Later on, I remember making the decision to write more like a boy so other kids wouldn't notice.. Since I hardly ever use a pen anymore it would be quite a task to change my writing back.
Title: Re: Handwriting
Post by: Teknoir on July 28, 2010, 12:23:41 AM
My normal handwriting is overtly masculine, and very distinctive.

Imagine a Daddy Long Legs falling in a pot of ink and running across the page, and you've got something pretty close to the mark.

In a word - terrible! It's bad even when compared to my cismale coworkers  :laugh:

I am capable of writing in a perfect "new foundation" (yay 1980's schooling) style, and it is very readable - but I only do that for forms and important documents. Otherwise it's the slap-dash-scribble print.
Title: Re: Handwriting
Post by: Elijah3291 on July 28, 2010, 12:24:49 AM
well I have always had gross messy handwriting, and I used to feel bad abotu it cause I knew most girls had big bubbly letters.. but now.. im happy about my messy handwriting.
Title: Re: Handwriting
Post by: KaciKip on July 28, 2010, 06:35:41 AM
My handwriting hasn't been a problem for me in regards to matching the gender I identify with if we're basing it off of that. Ever since I was little it's been messy. We used to get graded on handwriting in elementary school and I don't think I ever got anything above a C. My sister has stereotypical female handwriting though. It's big, curvy, and bubbly. Whereas mine is the opposite of all of that. I used to try and mimic it, and it was a disaster. XD

No one's ever told me that I write like a boy though. My mom would always say, "You write like a scientist!" to make me feel better about it. o.O
Title: Re: Handwriting
Post by: Rosa on July 28, 2010, 07:37:02 AM
I've always been told that I write like chicken scratch.  Thank goodness for word processors!
Title: Re: Handwriting
Post by: Angel On Acid on July 28, 2010, 07:51:44 AM
Quote from: Robertina on July 28, 2010, 07:37:02 AM
I've always been told that I write like chicken scratch.
I love that comparison xD
Title: Re: Handwriting
Post by: confused on July 28, 2010, 08:01:57 AM
idk , the handwriting of everyone i know whether it's a guy or a girl is more tidy/nice than mine , my handwriting is merely a set of light lines that are rarely straight. it seems that i don't have that much control over my fingers afterall
Title: Re: Handwriting
Post by: Zack on July 28, 2010, 09:48:52 AM
My handwriting starts of neat and then just goes into a mess because I can't be bothered.
Title: Re: Handwriting
Post by: Clay on July 28, 2010, 03:57:53 PM
Quote from: Zack on July 28, 2010, 09:48:52 AM
My handwriting starts of neat and then just goes into a mess because I can't be bothered.
same. also it looks different, like, everyday, depending on my state of mind....
Title: Re: Handwriting
Post by: Yakshini on July 28, 2010, 08:41:49 PM
I have had few comments about my handwriting. One person said I had a very "Poet-like" handwriting, the other person said my handwriting looks like a serial killer's. It's very italic, fast, and sharp. I always thought it looked like masculine handwriting.
Title: Re: Handwriting
Post by: Llewelyn on July 28, 2010, 10:33:26 PM
Your handwriting is really WHO you are. It can give insights into your subconscious, the emotions you're feeling at the time, and deep seated traits. Take for example an "I". It is said the lower stroke , represents your feelings toward your mother, and the dot above the feelings toward your father. I have a cousin whoms father had been absent pretty well their entire life, and they do not even dot their "I's". Or for eample if you write with a forward slant you tend to be more forward thinking and confident. There are so many examples, and tell tale signs, I often ask people to write me a random story so I can have a sample of their writing. Not to say it is all true but there is something so personal about the strokes you make, it's something you make that someone else can't recreate.
Title: Re: Handwriting
Post by: tekla on July 28, 2010, 11:28:31 PM
it's something you make that someone else can't recreate

OK, here's your new word for the day. FORGERY.  Look it up.
Title: Re: Handwriting
Post by: Llewelyn on July 28, 2010, 11:42:00 PM
"it's something you make that someone else can't recreate

OK, here's your new word for the day. FORGERY.  Look it up."

Durr. You've taken me out of context, something that someone can't -incidentally- recreate.
Title: Re: Handwriting
Post by: J Dot on July 28, 2010, 11:55:08 PM
My handwriting changes with my mood. If im into whatever we're doing it would be somewhat legible, but its still messy. most of the time it looks like im writing with my left hand.
Spelling...thats what computers are for
Title: Re: Handwriting
Post by: V M on July 29, 2010, 12:03:01 AM
People have told me I have nice hand writing but I've never liked it much  :P