Hi, I'm Sylvester. Call me Sly. I've been lurking here a while and joined because being able to talk to other gender-variant people will be good for me.
My story's pretty much like any other. Always felt like something was wrong, something just felt off about being called a "her," etc. Last year I went through a really feminine phase in a final attempt to 'fix' myself. Since giving up on that and acknowledging that my desire to be more masculine is at least worth exploring, I've been a lot happier. I'm not attempting to present as male in public yet, just wearing guy clothes and such. I think that may change soon though... the more I think about this stuff, the more being called a girl bugs me.
Hey. Welcome to Susan's.
Hi Sly, :icon_wave:
Welcome to our little family. Over 5400 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another brother. :icon_hug:
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- Site Terms of Service and rules to live by (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html)
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Hugs and Love,
Janet
Welcome!
I've forgone most pro-nouns all together, I only use they and them now when I refer to other people haha. It screws up a lot of the regular folk, but It's how I've always talked. I hope you find something with all that exploring :)
Welcome sly :) Glad your examining and exploring what will make you happy :D Like Llewelyn said hope you find what you're looking for