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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: SkylitLove on August 02, 2010, 11:44:05 AM

Title: Voice question
Post by: SkylitLove on August 02, 2010, 11:44:05 AM
So I haven't really started any sort of transition (although am in the process of setting everything up with a good gender specialist) and voice is something you can work on at anytime.
I tried a bit in the past with youtube videos (candifla, etc) and had no luck.

I know there's things out there to help you find your voice. Anyone have any suggestions? Would any of those DVDs (like TSRoadMap) be any good for helping me get started? It'd just help a lot to have some sort of guide to get me going with it all since I'm not sure how to start.
Title: Re: Voice question
Post by: Janet_Girl on August 02, 2010, 12:19:48 PM
I used the Deep Stealth CD, and it did help.  Also Kathy Perez is very good.
Title: Re: Voice question
Post by: Debra on August 02, 2010, 03:17:17 PM
If you have the $$, Sandy Hirsch is awesome! Her website is: http://www.givevoice.com (http://www.givevoice.com) . She is based in Seattle but she does Skype sessions too and even though I live near Seattle, I still used Skype for most of our sessions. If you want to hear a voice difference, check out my first video and last videos.

First Video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NKdka8BssAo# (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NKdka8BssAo#)

Latest Video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vIbz6hhH6bA# (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vIbz6hhH6bA#)
Title: Re: Voice question
Post by: Summerfall on August 02, 2010, 09:28:35 PM
Wow, your voice is such an inspiration, Jerica.
Title: Re: Voice question
Post by: Samantha_Marie on August 02, 2010, 09:33:59 PM
wow your voice is amazing! How long did it take you to get to this point?
Title: Re: Voice question
Post by: Debra on August 02, 2010, 10:34:11 PM
Thank you both! But really it was Sandy that helped me do it.

I started voice therapy with her in December 2009, doing it once a week and I probably began feeling more comfortable with my new voice by March or April of 2010. I started seeing Sandy less and less and now not at all until I can scrounge up the money to have her help me with singing alto someday.

Of course, it takes lots of practice too. I was trying to talk in the new voice all of the time outside of work and at some point I was accidentally using the new voice at work and getting weird looks so that became the excuse i needed to finally transition at work (February instead of April like I had planned haha!).
Title: Re: Voice question
Post by: Colleen Ireland on August 02, 2010, 10:36:56 PM
Wow, I'll second (or, I guess, third, lol) that vote - your voice is amazing, and I can't believe in the second video you're talking about trouble with passing - you look fantastic!  I didn't listen to the whole story about the jerk, but I sure hope I can be as pretty as you... (and sound as natural)
Title: Re: Voice question
Post by: Samantha_Marie on August 02, 2010, 11:01:33 PM
ok how do you get the ticker to work???

I added it into my sig section but I get an error that says;


The following errors occurred when trying to save your profile:

    * The following BBC is not allowed within your signature: abbr, acronym, anchor, code, code, ftp, ftp, flash, glow, i, iurl, iurl, li, list, list, left, ltr, me, move, nobbc, pre, php, quote, quote, quote, quote, quote, rtl, s, size, size, sub, sup, shadow, time, tt, u.
Title: Re: Voice question
Post by: Janet_Girl on August 02, 2010, 11:06:11 PM
Instead of the code starting with and ending with ....
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Try starting and ending with ....
[IMG][/IMG]
Title: Re: Voice question
Post by: Samantha_Marie on August 02, 2010, 11:06:59 PM
Yup got it thanks so much!!
Title: Re: Voice question
Post by: Debra on August 02, 2010, 11:35:10 PM
Quote from: Colleen Ireland on August 02, 2010, 10:36:56 PM
Wow, I'll second (or, I guess, third, lol) that vote - your voice is amazing, and I can't believe in the second video you're talking about trouble with passing - you look fantastic!  I didn't listen to the whole story about the jerk, but I sure hope I can be as pretty as you... (and sound as natural)

aww thanks girl. Yah its still been hard sometimes. =(
Title: Re: Voice question
Post by: glendagladwitch on August 03, 2010, 06:17:24 PM
That's an amazing result from voice therapy.  I wish I had the kind of voice that could have benefited from voice therapy like that, but even after years I could not get quite there.  Good for you.
Title: Re: Voice question
Post by: Keroppi on August 04, 2010, 06:44:26 PM
 :o :o :o

You have a beautiful voice Jerica. Are you sure those two videos were produced by the same person? :D
Title: Re: Voice question
Post by: Debra on August 04, 2010, 07:09:16 PM
Quote from: Keroppi on August 04, 2010, 06:44:26 PM
:o :o :o

You have a beautiful voice Jerica. Are you sure those two videos were produced by the same person? :D

Hehe thanks =) Yes I'm sure.

My voice teacher will play back my old voice for me sometimes and I'm like WHOA who is that guy????
Title: Re: Voice question
Post by: JessicaR on August 04, 2010, 08:08:00 PM
I have to admit that the voice came easier to me than most... I've always done impersonations and character voices so crossing into female only took a few weeks to find and a few months of practice to perfect.  For what they're worth, here are a few things I figured out...

-- To find your voice you have to figure out where the voice comes from... It's an actual location... Your natural female voice is higher in your throat and farther forward than your male one.

-- Try to impersonate cartoon characters first ... I found that Spongebob and Bart Simpson originate from the same "place" as my voice now. Once you find them, it's easier to find the girl :-)

-- Men resonate from their chest, women resonate from their head.

-- There's a CD by Melanie Anne Philips that I found helpful, although not revolutionary.. it's about $10

  Like a few have said... plan on months of practice before you get it good enough to pass... I practiced every time I was alone in my car.

Good luck!  :)
Title: Re: Voice question
Post by: Colleen Ireland on August 04, 2010, 08:43:43 PM
Quote from: JessicaR on August 04, 2010, 08:08:00 PMLike a few have said... plan on months of practice before you get it good enough to pass... I practiced every time I was alone in my car.

Yes, I managed to think of that one too - it's one of the very few places where one can count on complete privacy.  The real trick is to hear how you sound - the only way to really do that, I think, is to record yourself.  Something I haven't yet managed...