On Wearing A Scarlet 'T'
by Rei
Wed Aug 11, 2010 at 08:56:46 PM PDT
http://www.dailykos.com/storyonly/2010/8/11/892341/-On-Wearing-A-Scarlet-T (http://www.dailykos.com/storyonly/2010/8/11/892341/-On-Wearing-A-Scarlet-T)
Appropriate reactions when you discover something personal about a friend that they never told you:
1. "Huh."
2. "I always wondered..." / "I had no idea!"
3. Congratulations (if good) / my condolences (if bad)
4. Asking questions, but only if the person seems comfortable answering them.
5. Letting it be.
Inappropriate reactions: