The Anatomy of a Breakup
New York Times
By GILI WARSETT
Published: September 10, 2010
http://www.nytimes.com/2010/09/12/fashion/12Love.html?pagewanted=1&_r=1 (http://www.nytimes.com/2010/09/12/fashion/12Love.html?pagewanted=1&_r=1)
BEFORE we met, my partner had changed names from a female-sounding one to a male one, and by the time we were together, everyone we knew either called him by this new name or spoke of him with male pronouns. He identified himself as a transgender man, woman to man. It wasn't until two years after we began dating that he decided to have his breasts removed.