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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: Tad on September 11, 2010, 08:53:23 PM

Title: New ID - I see me!
Post by: Tad on September 11, 2010, 08:53:23 PM
So I picked up a new ID card yesterday.. and while it's just a University student ID.. I look at the name on it and mah photo and I see me finally.. not some card that I have to be embarrassed about and try to hide from people. Makes me happy. Great to have my info changed in the school system.. :)
Title: Re: New ID - I see me!
Post by: Robert Scott on September 11, 2010, 08:54:39 PM
Congrats!!!! That has to seriously feel rewarding!
Title: Re: New ID - I see me!
Post by: Silver on September 11, 2010, 08:56:03 PM
 :)
Title: Re: New ID - I see me!
Post by: Tad on September 11, 2010, 09:04:51 PM
yeah it's great.. since i typically have to use it 2 or 3 times a day.., and it's great that my name is changed in the school systems.. so that people aren't like wtf.. who is this person on the roster/emailing me.. there is no (female named) person in my class.
Title: Re: New ID - I see me!
Post by: Inkwe Mupkins on September 11, 2010, 09:20:54 PM
@Tad
Did you get your name legally changed?
Title: Re: New ID - I see me!
Post by: Tad on September 11, 2010, 09:38:07 PM
nope.. not yet. Waiting til I can legally change my gender.. which should be soon.
Title: Re: New ID - I see me!
Post by: Mark on September 11, 2010, 10:03:58 PM
congrats man! before my name change / new pic, i was always very reserved about having to show my ID(the peoples reactions never helped), after I got my new ID, I show it to everyone. =]  Its a good feeling, enjoy it =]
Title: Re: New ID - I see me!
Post by: Tad on September 16, 2010, 02:29:15 PM
Nother small step. Got my library card in my male name this year.. instead of the old one.. slowly getting everything that doesn't require legal switched over.
Title: Re: New ID - I see me!
Post by: zombiesarepeaceful on September 16, 2010, 02:46:10 PM
Just so you know....where I am, I had no issues changing my gender marker before my name change was legal. Neither did my friend, and we both have non male birth names.
Title: Re: New ID - I see me!
Post by: Tad on September 16, 2010, 03:09:14 PM
Here I have to get letters from a psych.. which should hopefully be in the next month or two.

I'm waiting to change legal name for when I can cahange my gender - to cut back on costs.
Title: Re: New ID - I see me!
Post by: Tad on September 16, 2010, 03:37:29 PM
oh wait.. yeah.. you have to have already had your name changed... or be doing it at the same time to change your gender here..
Title: Re: New ID - I see me!
Post by: HarryP on September 17, 2010, 04:26:10 PM
Great that you've got your new uni ID mate! I got my deed poll a couple of months ago and so far have changed my name and gender marker with bank, doctor's surgery, basically everything without a photo on.  I've just sent my driving license off to be changed, and hoping that will be OK - some people have told me you need a letter from your doctor as well, some say the DVLA will let you change everything with your deed poll alone... Fingers crossed!
Title: Re: New ID - I see me!
Post by: Aegir on September 17, 2010, 07:33:59 PM
Congratulations! I'm happy for you ^^
Title: Re: New ID - I see me!
Post by: PixieBoy on September 18, 2010, 12:57:37 PM
Congrats, Tad!  ;D

I have a friend who managed to change his name (in my country, gender-contrary names (being named John and being legally female, for instance) are not allowed if you're under 18, which my friend is. However, his name sounded very similar to a name which would be considered gender-neutral, so he managed to slip past the radar for that one). He's really happy because of his new I.D with a new name and a new photo, but he's still sad because of the gender markers, K and F (Kvinna (woman) and Female). However, I told him to see it like this: K = Kille (guy), F = ->-bleeped-<-.

I dunno if any of you guys can think about it like that, but I thought it was a bit funny and wanted to share it.
Title: Re: New ID - I see me!
Post by: Squirrel698 on September 18, 2010, 01:31:58 PM
Congratulations!  That has to be a great feeling to be able to wear it with pride. 

This reminds me how much I can't wait until I can change my license.
Title: Re: New ID - I see me!
Post by: Jamie on September 18, 2010, 03:23:21 PM
Congrats Tad!  :)