Hi, I'm new to this board (obviously) and am looking for somewhere I can talk about my relationship with my beloved woman :).
I'm a 50 year old female in a relationship of 3 years with a 40 year old TG woman. I love her dearly and we have the happiest, most stable relationship I have ever experienced in my life. She's been post op for about 8 years and full time for 3 years before that, but as many in her situation she's always felt 'not quite in the right body' and had gender issues growing up, complicated by a strict Christian upbringing.
We have 3 sons between us aged 17,18 and 19 who have accepted our relationship with equanimity (although it took a while) and we are all very close.
Life is not totally without ups and downs and although we are a lot happier than many couples in this situation, there are complications af various kinds. We are lucky in that we belong to a supportive, inclusive Christian fellowship, have family that accept us and she has a job she loves where she is free to be herself. I am disabled, however, which can cause the odd problem (to say the least) and two of our boys are autistic, which can be difficult.
Oh dear - I hope you don't mind me waffling like this - once again, it's nice to 'meet' you and I look forward to getting to know some of you.
F
Its nice to meet you also. Glad to have you join us.
Sarah L.
Welcome Faylvr, I am new here as well. You will like it here!!! There are so many nice people here. I am sure you will, as I do, enjoy meeting them all.
I too had a strict Christian upbringing. About the same age as you and married 28 years, three children. You will find that there are quite a few with a similar background here.
Big Smile and a hug, Erocse
Hi Faylvr, :icon_wave:
Welcome to our little family. Over 3600 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
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Hugs and Love,
Janet
Hi and welcome Faylvr.
Hi Faylvr! It's always nice to see a supportive SO. Welcome!
Hi, nice to meet you and welcome!.. I am somewhat new too I just joined a couple days ago..