I like this board and all the girls here.I read alot of posts about crossdressers trying to tell their wives.I really try to relate to that .I wish i could offer some advice.I have been struggling with my feelings a along time now.I know i am gay.I am very sorry.I thought this would put me at odd's with this forum ,because a crossdresser's so 's worst nightmare is probably that " i married a gay guy".So i have been trying to not introject any comments.
For me it doesn't matter if a person is male, female, trans, gay, straight. Good advice and kind words aren't bound by these things. If someone devalues a good, logical statement (barring personal interpretation ;) ) then they are just fighting while backed into a corner.
So if you feel you offer well meant advice, then I don't see a problem at all. Takes all kinds Mamma said. :)
To use your sexuality as a means to devalue your input is just as bad as devaluating you be cause you are a cross dresser.
Just because you are gay is no more less of a value, than being a cross dresser. Please continue to add your input on subject you find interesting.