I am what I am and it's not a choice
Peterson Toscano
Published 20 July 2007
http://www.newstatesman.com/life-and-society/2007/07/gay-choose-sex-choice-world (http://www.newstatesman.com/life-and-society/2007/07/gay-choose-sex-choice-world)
But I stray into murky embryonic waters. Back to choice. Did I choose to be gay?
Yes, on September 21, 1972 in 2nd grade (age 7) I said to myself: "Although most people treat gays like crap and only heterosexuality is represented and celebrated in my world, from this time forth I choose to like other boys instead of girls. Sure others will bully me, maybe even beat me up, but hey someone's got to be society's punching bag."
Actually, no, I never chose to be gay. In fact, for nearly two decades I even tried choosing NOT to be gay.
that article is made rubbish by quoting J Michael Bailey :D