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If you read my post about the LAPD Violating me read on..... Okay so this morning, I went to the liquor store on the corner to get a couple of stamps. And lo and behold, there is one of the LAPD who I had a NEGETIVE encounter with just recently. WEll anyways, this was the mean cops partner, and he pulled to the side of the road, told me, "STOP" Need-less-to-say my heart did a quadruple flop inside my chest....rememer it is the Rampart Division that patrols this area and they just got done shooting that immigrant about three blocks from here, when the dude did NOT have a knife and they capped him!! Anyways so IM like tripping, moving extremely slowly!! NO sudden moves, making suree to keep my hands in sight when the partner of the mean cop (he was with a different pig) anyways he said, "I appologize for my partner the other day....he really meant it,,,, was soooooooooooo sincere,,,,,then he asked for my number!!!! OMFG!!!! I was so like in shock i actually gave it to him, I hope he doesnt call though!!!!! ewwwwww
To be completely fair and tell it right I HAVE TO admit that he is one fine MF....wow, I just melted while lookiong into his eyes,,,,,VERY VERY many !!! I LOVE that!!! Im sorry, I am kinda seeing stars but he is a pig. Cant do it, if 18 saw that man and me even in his off time, I would DEFINITELY....Anyways, Life is a real trip....I NEVER cease to be surprised by who hits on me...who-da-thunk it
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Did they not find out you are Trans? If they did, it is interesting that him wanted your number. Maybe an admirer or a ->-bleeped-<-.
Interesting. But at least he did apologize. ;D
take him as being genuine and if he does call then let him know how you felt as being treated like that but cut him off gently if he seems to want to get more friendly/sexy.
Quote from: lilacwoman on October 12, 2010, 12:12:36 PM
take him as being genuine and if he does call then let him know how you felt as being treated like that but cut him off gently if he seems to want to get more friendly/sexy.
yeah but i really dont want to piss him off...then what am I opening the door to..i should have given him a wrong number
this is NOt A COMFORTABLE POSITION TO BE IN
Kitty,
I assume US police have some sort if ID on their tunics? Here, they all have numbers on their epalettes.
Hopefully you've noted who they both are.
I agree with lilacwoman, to an extent, that you should take him on face value. But definatly, don't start any sort of relationship with him. Such a thing would be abusive and wrong. It might also be an offence on his part.
But you have an apology. Take that as honest and continue to live as normally. If you get any furthr problems, it's time for you to suck it and make a proper complaint.
Remember kitty, if people get away with this sort of thing with you they will simply do it again with someone else. That isn't fair to them It isn't solidarity.
I would still be careful Kitty, despite him apologizing and asking for your number. I dont know what else to say.
What a wonderful story!
I can imagine how uncomfortable you feel. But I have never heard of ANYONE getting an apology from the cops. If he does call, I hope you will let us know. But I doubt it is going to happen.
Thanks for sharing!
Quote from: Kristi on October 13, 2010, 08:11:50 AM
What a wonderful story!
I cant practically see the sarcasm dripping from this statement. How is dealing with the pigs (er, excuse me I mean police officers) ever a good story.?? Explaine please!?!?
Quote from: superkitty036 on October 13, 2010, 08:20:19 AM
How is dealing with the pigs (er, excuse me I mean police officers) ever a good story.??
How is stereotyping all police officers as "pigs" different from stereotyping all transsexuals as "perverts"?
Quote from: Kay Henderson on October 13, 2010, 09:35:21 AM
How is stereotyping all police officers as "pigs" different from stereotyping all transsexuals as "perverts"?
Well because I have YET to meet a nice cop. When I wallk out my door and am almost instantly asked, "you on probation or parole" Never been on either, or being searched for no reason. When I was raped, I was able to get away before the second one got me, i ran half naked to a payphone, called 911, when the PIGS showed u[p they asked mer if I was on probation or parole, then proceeded to ARREST me for not having ID. Didnt even want to listen to my story. I even told the dispatcher that I was half naked........so you know what.... I dont want to be banned so i will not say what I really want to say. I will try to be more mature than i want to be right now
And I have dealt with enough police to know what they are and what they are about!!! What city do you live in....ME Los Angeles, you probably small town USA
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Let not get into a hissy fit here people. SuperKitty lives in an area of LA that is know by the police as a bad area. I imagine they treat everyone as a suspect.
Also please remember that she has had issues with the police before, through no fault of her own.
Quote from: Janet Lynn on October 13, 2010, 10:00:48 AM
:police: :icon_chainsaw:Oh yeah, how do you like my little icon added thingy! lol
Let not get into a hissy fit here people. SuperKitty lives in an area of LA that is know by the police as a bad area. I imagine they treat everyone as a suspect.
Also please remember that she has had issues with the police before, through no fault of her own.
Thank you babe. I really appreciate ypui standing up for me as you understand my situation well. This is why, i feel a strong sense of love for my family here at Susans.....thank you! Arent ya proud of me for biting my tongue??? I know I am!!!
Quote from: Dee_pntx on October 13, 2010, 10:23:24 AM
I don't trust the cops either.
When my best friend died about 5 1/2 months ago here in my/our house, the police were TRIPPING OUT over me.
I had to go to the police station of course during the investigation and during the 8 hours I was there, they asked me EVERYTHING about EVERYTHING in my life. The asked me things that not even my BFF knew and she knew *everything* about me.
The seemed to be fascinated by the fact that I have boobs and still (unfortunately) have boy parts below.
The asked me a LOT of questions about that. Does it work, how big is it, how do you hide it, can you orgasm, do you have cum, did you have sex with your friend, why not? etc.... They asked me my life story, when did I first know I was like this, on and on and on... It was all male cops and the whole police force paraded in and out of the detective's office to get a look at me and hear me talk like a woman. They typed up everything I said on a computer (to be saved forever and shared with Homeland Stupidity), printed it out, read it aloud in front of witnesses to have me confirm accuracy, sign it and notarize it.
While I was in the police station they sent some grunt-ass patrol cops around the neighbor hood to ask questions of my neighbors and thus outed me to my entire neighborhood who did not know before that. >:(
Not once was a police woman brought in or was one even mentioned. I doubt they have one on the force anyway.
After the police have gone around talking to my neighbors, calling me an it, thing, he/she, freak, etc...
Other times they have gone to SOCIAL EVENTS with my neighbors and asked questions about me in front of other people that did not know and asked personal questions about me.
Recently a lone cop has been to my house on several occasions beating on my door, so my neighbor tells me.
My mom thinks that the cops are just trying to screw with my head and scare me into moving away. WTF? Not one of them lives anywhere near me. Mom says they want me out of town. I believe it. F**king bigoted inbred red necks.
Cops are no friend of mine. Fine or not, I wouldn't date those macho A-holes. They get off on abusing power and roughing people up. They have mental problems. They could also use a regime of Spiro for about a year. That would cure that macho BS.
That is EXACTLY why i call them PIGS.......I am so sorry that you have had to go through this....I love you
Jeez, Dee that is horrible. Yet another example of how humanity completely sucks.
I really do appreciate your support. Thanks
Quote from: Laura91 on October 13, 2010, 10:12:39 AM
I don't see the connection in saying that calling a cop a "pig" is just as bad as calling a transperson a "->-bleeped-<-" or whatever. People call cops "pigs" because of the abuse of power that is so common. People call transpeople "->-bleeped-<-s" because of ignorance. There is a massive difference between those two things.
I don't mean to diminish the personal experiences of anyone in the group.
The connection is simply that implying "All ( ) are ( )" when there are obvious exceptions is stereotyping.
There obviously are many people in law enforcement who deserve the "pig" label, and there may in fact be transsexuals who could be considered "perverts".
I just don't like painting with so broad a brush when talking about groups of people.
Even the police don't mind being call "PIGS"
To them it means:
Pride
Integrate
Guts
Service.
Quote from: Kay Henderson on October 13, 2010, 12:05:46 PM
I don't mean to diminish the personal experiences of anyone in the group.
Uh huh, funny how it feels that way
The connection is simply there is nothing SIMPLE about this that implying "All ( ) are ( )" when there are obvious exceptions is stereotyping. stereotyping is based upon IGNORANCE (key word being IGNORANCE) whereas my experience with ppolice officers (PIGS) gives me a complete set of facts with which I base MY educated opinion on
There obviously are many people in law enforcement who deserve the "pig" label, and there may in fact be transsexuals who could be considered "perverts".
I just don't like painting with so broad a brush when talking about groups of people.Maybe if you had some experience where I live you would paint with a broad brush...
NOW, i will say that the things I, and others, have stated in this post are VERY real and VERY personal. I get stopped by Hollywood Divisoin when I am in Hollywood, Wilshire Division when in WIlshire district, RAMPART when I step out my door........WHICH is why i NEVER EVER call them for anything anymore, the only way I would call them is if i had a car and it was stolen......the world is a LOT more complex than you have experienced, obviously....and by the way, what city do you live in????? Do tell :icon_archery::police: :icon_chainsaw:
Quote from: Kay Henderson on October 13, 2010, 12:05:46 PM
I don't mean to diminish the personal experiences of anyone in the group.
The connection is simply that implying "All ( ) are ( )" when there are obvious exceptions is stereotyping.
There obviously are many people in law enforcement who deserve the "pig" label, and there may in fact be transsexuals who could be considered "perverts".
I just don't like painting with so broad a brush when talking about groups of people.
Yeah, I understand that, that's why I said that there are a few good cops.
I've had both good and bad experiences with Mr.& Mrs. Wiggly (cops)... Some have harassed the hecks out of me every time they've seen me and others didn't give me much of a problem
Quote from: superkitty036 on October 13, 2010, 12:15:22 PM
the world is a LOT more complex than you have experienced, obviously....and by the way, what city do you live in????? Do tell
For the last four months...Ormond Beach, Florida. Prior to that, Orlando, Atlanta, Seoul and Baltimore. And, a number of small towns as well.
Being nearly 70 years old, I'm well aware of the world's complexities.
Quote from: Kay Henderson on October 13, 2010, 01:06:55 PM
Being nearly 70 years old, I'm well aware of the world's complexities.
whooda thunk it
Quote from: superkitty036 on October 13, 2010, 01:18:44 PM
whooda thunk it
Incidentally, I regret that I've found myself in the position of appearing to argue with you. That wasn't my intent. I don't enjoy conflict and certainly wouldn't create it on purpose.
If there's a right and a wrong here, I'm happy to cede the "right" position to you.
Quote from: Kay Henderson on October 13, 2010, 01:30:26 PM
Incidentally, I regret that I've found myself in the position of appearing to argue with you. That wasn't my intent. I don't enjoy conflict and certainly wouldn't create it on purpose.
If there's a right and a wrong here, I'm happy to cede the "right" position to you.
There is NO RIGHT or WRONG. Just sensitive and insensitive. And you cant cede anything to me. Because I have an opinion that is based on extensive experience. Just as I am sure that your extensive experience has led you to the opinion that you have. Whatever, if you read ALL posts, you would have seen some spilled guts on the floor. Some sensitive issues that the poster may or may not have had the opportunity to deal with...and that is the sole responsibility of said poster. But then again, its just stupid superkitty
Quote from: superkitty036 on October 13, 2010, 01:38:46 PM
Whatever, if you read ALL posts, you would have seen some spilled guts on the floor. Some sensitive issues that the poster may or may not have had the opportunity to deal with...and that is the sole responsibility of said poster.
I've read enough to know it's been incredibly traumatic. I can't imagine going through all that.