My private parts are PRIVATE!
http://www.questioningtransphobia.com/?p=3322 (http://www.questioningtransphobia.com/?p=3322)
10/21/10
As the date for my SRS quickly approaches, a very unwelcome kind of weirdness has sprung up amongst my friends: wanting to see my new vagina.
I'm at a loss to explain this really. There have been no requests to view my pre-surgery genitals (to make a comparison), only requests to see the post surgical results. Even stranger, the requests come exclusively from women. Am I missing out on some ritualistic part of womanhood? Do cis females throw parties where they all inspect each other's vaginas?
my bosses and all other female friends say they want to look at mine when I eventually get it.
At the same time they all laugh at the idea that theirs and all others could be thought attractive and that men are so fixated on porn.