hey, i'm looking for some people who are like me... who don't crossdress in the "classic way". i wear female clothes everyday, but i don't wear make-up or wigs or things like that. i dont' do it to become a woman for some hours. i wear these clothes, because it's who i am. i dress this way, because it represents myself. so i'm not a "typical" crossdresser. i don't even know what i am ;) i'm a guy and don't wanna change this. but i don't know anyone who is like me. so i hope that here are some people like me who are interested in talking about this topic.
i wanna go further with my style, but i have a lack of courage, so it would be great to talk with people who are or were in the same situation.
i don't know if you exactly know what i mean so here are some examples of what i am talking about:
http://guiltyandglamorous.blogspot.com/ (http://guiltyandglamorous.blogspot.com/)
http://forums.thefashionspot.com/f52/martin-cohn-44056.html (http://forums.thefashionspot.com/f52/martin-cohn-44056.html)
http://forums.thefashionspot.com/f52/andrej-pejic-72977.html (http://forums.thefashionspot.com/f52/andrej-pejic-72977.html)
http://newmalefashion.blogspot.com/ (http://newmalefashion.blogspot.com/)
I just adore Andrej Pejic! So unbelievably sexy no matter if he is modeling as a male, female or something in between. He is on my Facebook friend's list and is a super nice person. I have talked to him a couple of times. Supposedly we are going to meet for coffee if he ever comes to Philly. :)
Sitting here wearing a knit dress and a bra and loving it.
I have had gynecomastia (male breasts) since before puberty. At times they were more defined than others. Other than being teased by my father's nieces about my condition I've managed to deal with it around other males. The down side is I always had a fantasy about wearing a bra. Over a month ago I decided on the spur of the moment to purchase three sports bras in Wal Mart. They are not sized properly but they give me a better look even as a male than my natural look.
I have trouble keeping pants up, partially due to a back injury and have been uncomfortable working around the house in pants and shorts, so I decided to buy a dress. I am a househusband so I have about six hours of being able to enjoy myself in the comfort of these clothes.
The other day I got lazy and left my damp clothes in the dryer overnight and my wife discovered my sports bras. She drug it out a bit asking if I really thought they gave me any support. I swallowed hard and said I thought she had known about them as one night while out for dinner she said her bra straps were slipping were mine doing the same?
I don't think she will take well to the dress, which is why I only have one, so far.
Brook
I'm almost the same way. I like the feel and the comfort of womans panties and bra's, nylons and slips are the best. I'm completely hetro and lonely as hell, divorced of course. Thats my story and I'm sticking to it.
While I go for the whole enchilada, I have great respect for anyone who expresses their true selves, you my friend have found the secret to happiness.
You are not alone. I wear pantyhose frequently, often with women's shorts. I also wear women's shoes - mostly ballet flats and mary-janes. Have not tried to present as female in over a decade.
Brenn
I am like that. Brcause of my wifes dislke for crossdressing, I can only underdress and even thats done without her knowledge at the moment! Like you, I am a guy, I dont feel like a woman, but I do enjoy wearing softer things, even a dress or skirt (when wifes away, which is far and few between). On any given day I have on panties only, and about once aweek, I will put on my silk panties, a slip and cammie, all under my outer clothes. I enjoy every day and it feels natural for me to wear these things. If I could? I would be wearing at least panties, a slip and cammi everyday and once in awhile pantyhose too, all the while being what I am, a guy.
I have worn only panties or pantyhose in the past. Recently I am either in the male persona or enfemme all the way. I do however keep my finger nails painted while in the male mode since doing nails is too much work to be removing and reapplying too often. I am lazy at times also.