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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: Cody Jensen on November 19, 2010, 11:54:49 PM

Title: Chances at getting a girlfriend?
Post by: Cody Jensen on November 19, 2010, 11:54:49 PM
Hey guys. Lately I've been doing a lot of worrying and thinking. I was wondering, I keep seeing this girl in my head. No girl in particular. But I feel the need that once I transition I should try to find a girlfriend, and I don't mean to offend anyone in any way, but I was wondering what the chances are of an FtM that is 5'3 getting any date? I have this worry that I'll never find someone once I transition. What do you think?
Title: Re: Chances at getting a girlfriend?
Post by: Elsa on November 20, 2010, 12:16:40 AM
I believe there is a person for everyone,.. I am sure you will find some one when the time is right...
till then don't stop searching for that person,..

and luckily height is not the only thing that matters .. so its going to be ok...   :)
Title: Re: Chances at getting a girlfriend?
Post by: Mr.Rainey on November 20, 2010, 12:55:34 AM
Girls don't care if your short if you are chraming.
Title: Re: Chances at getting a girlfriend?
Post by: SnailPace on November 20, 2010, 02:24:00 AM
I know a cis-guy who is like 4'11" or 5' and he is actually quite the lady killer! You just have to be nice :)
Title: Re: Chances at getting a girlfriend?
Post by: LordKAT on November 20, 2010, 02:45:49 AM
I have similar worries. Welcome to the club. I also figure that if it is meant to be, it will happen and that the day and time is not of my choosing. Meanwhile I just be the best man I can be and wait.
Title: Re: Chances at getting a girlfriend?
Post by: Carson on November 20, 2010, 09:11:25 AM
Height doesn't really factor in as there are cisguys that short also. Sex is only a problem if you make it, remeber there are plenty of cisguys with some sort of sexual dysfunction too. As long as you are a nice polite guy you will have no problem getting a girl. I was Pre-t and I had a girlfriend for 2+years.
Title: Re: Chances at getting a girlfriend?
Post by: Cody Jensen on November 20, 2010, 11:36:53 AM
Good to hear about the results. Thanks guys
Title: Re: Chances at getting a girlfriend?
Post by: LordKAT on November 20, 2010, 01:06:10 PM
Youth and optimism is what helps, I have neither.
Title: Re: Chances at getting a girlfriend?
Post by: Shadowlyc on November 20, 2010, 01:26:55 PM
I'm pre-T, 5'2 and my girlfriend is 5'7. Height isn't always a factor. :) You'll find someone who'll love you for you.