I haven't been on here for a while but I just started coming back...anyways, my mom said when I turn sixteen she would take me to get checked so I can go on a pill for that time of month so it doesn't last so long. I'm old enough to now so I asked her when she would take me. I asked what they do and she told me they get some cells or whatever to make sure you don't got cancer or anything. She told me that a while ago and I thought I could handle that, I would just talk to them about how I'm VERY uncomfortable about that part of me and stuff. BUt then she told me that they feel around up inside to make sure everything is good like the uterus and stuff. THat made me wanna throw up. Not just the part with them feeling all that, but just the thought that I don't feel comfortable bout thinking how I have all that stuff. ANd if I was just born a boy then I wouldn't need to deal with it. THEn I got all blah blah feeling (you know dysphoric and depressed and stuff, even more then I've been) so anyways...do you guys know if there's anything that I could take and don't need to go through all that?
well, when I got birth control I ddnt have todo n examination, the dr just asked me what kind I wanted, and gave it to me.
maybe try a different dr, i dont think you need examinations for birth cntrol
I've talked to a couple of doctors about it, one wanted me to get an exam done and wouldn't prescribe the BC without an exam. The next doctor I saw wanted me to have an exam but went ahead and agreed to prescribe BC without one. I ended up backing out though because I just didn't want the extra female hormones in my body.
Ok. THanks. I guess ill just talk to em bout it. see what they say.
Quote from: Elijah on December 08, 2010, 08:46:19 PM
well, when I got birth control I ddnt have todo n examination, the dr just asked me what kind I wanted, and gave it to me.
maybe try a different dr, i dont think you need examinations for birth cntrol
It varies by state. In California, doctors are required by law to perform a full pelvic exam as a prerequisite to prescribing birth control. Every time you get a new prescription, you need a full exam. Fortunately, the prescription is for a year's supply.
The only way to avoid needing to have a pap smear (the 'getting some cells or whatever') is to have a hysterectomy. Pelvic exams are a pretty critical part of a routine health screening for anyone with a uterus. For an unfortunate example of what can result in avoiding these exams, watch the documentary Southern Comfort.
Charles your age says 16. I seem to recall another transguy who mentioned his age and getting a papsmear and everyone said if he hadn't been sexually active and didn't have any problems he didn't need one until he is older.
Just throwing that out there as something to look into if you haven't been sexually active. A doctor should be able to tell you whether one is needed at your age or not.
Quote from: Michael Alexander on December 08, 2010, 11:43:05 PM
Charles your age says 16. I seem to recall another transguy who mentioned his age and getting a papsmear and everyone said if he hadn't been sexually active and didn't have any problems he didn't need one until he is older.
Many doctors will not prescribe birth control/menstruation suppressants without one.
I was prescribed birth control at 15, (i wasn't sexually active) and i didn't need a exam, but i don't know what the laws are here in michigan.
Anyone know of anything other than birth control or anorexia that does it? (Because neither of those things are going to happen)
Quote from: Lee on December 09, 2010, 01:26:34 AM
Anyone know of anything other than birth control or anorexia that does it? (Because neither of those things are going to happen)
Testosterone. Hysterectomy. Pregnancy. Lots of regular physical exercise.
That's about it.
I talked to my doc when she tried to get me to do a pap and she asked me are you sexually active and I told her yeah, I have a girlfriend. She asked me if I did anything with men or any type of insertion and I told her no (why would I want to put anything in a hole thats not supposed to be there?) and anyways she said I didn't need one. I basically told her that when I do have sex its with a strap on and she says I am "medically a virgin" or whatever bs- but hey at least I can avoid the evil pap smears that way till I get my hysto.
Quote from: Mr.Rainey on December 09, 2010, 03:07:45 AMat least I can avoid the evil pap smears that way till I get my hysto.
You need one before you get a hysto. They're usually done in the pre-op appointment.
Quote from: Mister on December 09, 2010, 03:13:27 AM
You need one before you get a hysto. They're usually done in the pre-op appointment.
Yeah but if I gotta put up with one, its better than putting up with periods.
Quote from: Mr.Rainey on December 09, 2010, 04:03:23 AM
Yeah but if I gotta put up with one, its better than putting up with periods.
You do realize that T will stop periods and is at least $24,000 cheaper and not major surgery, right?
Quote from: Mister on December 09, 2010, 04:09:14 AM
You do realize that T will stop periods and is at least $24,000 cheaper and not major surgery, right?
Yes. T is not an option at this time and I doubt it will be. By my research I can get a hysto for 5k.
Quote from: Mr.Rainey on December 09, 2010, 04:37:38 AM
Yes. T is not an option at this time and I doubt it will be. By my research I can get a hysto for 5k.
5? In the US? Mine, performed in a public hospital, was 51k, including pre- and post- op visits. Finding the same for 10% of the cost seems very unlikely.
Quote from: Mister on December 09, 2010, 04:40:38 AM
5? In the US? Mine, performed in a public hospital, was 51k, including pre- and post- op visits. Finding the same for 10% of the cost seems very unlikely.
Mister, you got ripped. Mine was almost 11k but no where near 50k. I had ovaries tubes and whole uterus including cervix removed.
Quote from: LordKAT on December 09, 2010, 04:47:33 AM
Mister, you got ripped. Mine was almost 11k but no where near 50k. I had ovaries tubes and whole uterus including cervix removed.
That's cheap for the SF Bay Area. UCSF was $100-125k.
I would like to stop mine too. Don't want to take any female hormones. T will stop them and hopefully will start soon. I have known girls who were not sexually active get the pill to help control their periods without getting an pelvic exam. Mine are way to messy every month for me, will just keep using lots of tampons until I can get on T.
I started taking birth control at 15 stopped a few months ago at 21. Never been examined. I don't see why it matters if you are sexually active or not, as long as you know you don't have an STD. Im sure if you ask enough doctors you will find someone who will give it to you. I hadn't seen the specialist that was giving me it in over 3 years so she cut me off until I would drive out and talk to her. I went to my primary care Dr and he was really unhappy about giving me birth control without an exam. I just promised him I would get one and he gave me a few months worth until I went to the specialist.
Have you tried planned parent hood?
"4. Choose and undergo your exam option.
Prior to being given or administered with contraceptives, you have to undergo a gynecological exam. Planned Parenthood offers four options. You can choose to undergo the examination at the Planned Parenthood clinic, at another doctor's office, have delayed exam, or not have one at all. For the last option, a Planned Parenthood clinician will determine if you are at high risk for conditions that may get worse with birth control use. If you are not at risk for any conditions, you may be able to forego the exam."
http://www.articleclick.com/Article/How-to-Get-Birth-Control-Through-Planned-Parenthood/980173 (http://www.articleclick.com/Article/How-to-Get-Birth-Control-Through-Planned-Parenthood/980173)
Quote from: Lee on December 09, 2010, 01:26:34 AM
Anyone know of anything other than birth control or anorexia that does it? (Because neither of those things are going to happen)
I know a woman who is really fat and she stopped getting it. She said it was because of her weight.
I never tried this stuff. Chinese herbs that are supposed to stop it.
http://www.kwintessential.co.uk/articles/article/China/Chinese-Herbs-to-Stop-Menstruation/1858 (http://www.kwintessential.co.uk/articles/article/China/Chinese-Herbs-to-Stop-Menstruation/1858)http://www.kwintessential.co.uk/articles/article/China/Chinese-Herbs-to-Stop-Menstruation/1858 (http://www.kwintessential.co.uk/articles/article/China/Chinese-Herbs-to-Stop-Menstruation/1858)
Hey, Charles, I think you might want to read through the replies to this similar, recent post: https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,87581.msg625367.html#msg625367 (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,87581.msg625367.html#msg625367).
There's a lot of misinformation floating around in this thread. There is no medical (or legal) reason to need a pelvic exam or a Pap test before taking hormonal birth control. The Pap test looks for changes in cervical cells that can become cancerous, but cervical cancer is caused by a sexually transmitted virus; if you have never been exposed to the virus (which 80% of sexually active people have), then the test is unmerited. Similarly, a pelvic exam tells doctors if there's something physically wrong with your reproductive organs; if you have no complaints (severe cramps, heavy bleeding, irregular periods, etc.) then you simply don't need one, but if you do have any of these problems, it may be a useful diagnostic tool for troubleshooting them, and if you think it would be helpful, you can ask about taking anti-anxiety drugs to help you get through the appointment. Anyway, if you want to go on hormonal birth control to shorten or stop periods, try calling the doctor your mom wants to take you to to tell them you don't want or need an exam (and also say what you do want, if anything). You can even schedule a "clothes-on" appointment where you can talk to the doctor about what you're concerned about with no fear of exams or tests. Don't forget that they cannot do an exam on you against your will; don't forget that you can always say no, so if you don't want it, just say no, and they can't do it. You may also want to look into your local Planned Parenthood or youth clinic where you may be able to get it at low cost and without any unnecessary exams or testing.
When I was given Depo Provera (birth control) all I had to do was a urine test to check that i wan't pregnant (which I wasn't, but its for legal stuff) so it seems weird that you would need any examination or anything.