Firstly, I finally have a set appointment to see a dr about starting hrt yay.
Its not for another three months, but I thought itd be further away.
Second, I wanted to ask a question to transguys who are pre-t, pre-op and dont pass as male their age..when dating, do u disclose your 'trans' status to everyone? or do you keep it on the downlow?..say you meet someone online and they 'think youre a complete bio male' what would you do?
Third, this is a weird kinky ish question..say youre comfortable enough to shower with someone, but you dont want to do it completely topless or with your full binder on..what would be a good alternative? I was thinking duct tape, any suggestions on how to bind with that and if itll stay on with soap and warm water.
Lastly, something weird is going on with my chest..my binders are fitting me extremely weird and the shape is becoming very odd looking to which nothing canfix..as if only the center part is being bound so the top and bottom create this wave thing..its really annoying me and ive been getting frustrated..anyone know what might be going on?
Thanks
OH! Also, the other day when I answered my phone my dad said who just answered the phone and I was like me, and he said no a guy just answered who was that and I said it was me..hes trippin haha
i do the shower thing in a Tshirt and boxers.
umm disclosing... I waited 2 months.. lijely to long.
Duct tape is not going to be sexy to remove! I do the T-shirt and underwear thing, but if you need some compression, this might be a good occasion for an Ace bandage, since you're not going to be wearing it long-term. Can't say much about dating since I've been in the same relationship for 6 years, but I generally think honesty is the best policy. Good luck!
Quote from: Tad on December 11, 2010, 01:14:43 AM
i do the shower thing in a Tshirt and boxers.
umm disclosing... I waited 2 months.. lijely to long.
Is that without binding or packing?
Idk I just don't like going around telling everybody I meet that im trans. Even just dating prospects.
Quote from: Femboy on December 11, 2010, 03:02:43 PM
Is that without binding or packing?
Idk I just don't like going around telling everybody I meet that im trans. Even just dating prospects.
yeah without binding or packing in the shower. I don't want to be wearing 15 layers if I'm in the shower.. so tshirt and boxers work.. and a no touching the chest ruley