Susan's Place Transgender Resources

Alright, so I stepped back earlier and realized everything has been about being trans in my life as of late. I decided that I needed to focus on none transition stuff so I decided to make a list of top 10 things to do in my life not involving transition, thought maybe some of ya'll would want to join in with your own lists.

1. Go to Ireland with my mom
2. Graduate with some sort of college degree
3. Own a pug (yeah, that one sounds kinda stupid but it's important)
4. Marry an amazing person
5. Live in a place I love
6. Spend some time getting to know my brother and sister who I never see
7. Have a job I enjoy even if it means having to have 2 jobs.
8. Start leasing a horse and riding again maybe even own one
9. Live my life with no regrets just some things I wish I'd have done differently
10. Actually live and be happy, not afraid to be me.

1. Live in italy
2. get married to a beautiful woman, again!
3. publish some books, poetry...
4. See my kids grow up to be awesome people
5. Watch all of of Lost in one go
6. Get a micro transdermal implant
7. Live in an apartment
8. Become friends again with my exwife
9. Become a counsellor and change peoples lives for the better
10. Adopt a Norwegian forest cat.

Gah, why Ireland and why is it at no.1....how much do you like rain?

I wrote out a list of what I wanted to accomplish when I was about 21-22.  It had about 30 items on it.  The only two left undone is that I have not climbed Everest (and no doubt never will, I'd still like to get to the base camp, I'd settle for that) and visit all 50 states.  There are still a few to go like Alaska, Maine and South Carolina.

• Get SRS
• Go to Cornwall
• See Paris
• Get Married as the Bride.
• Own a House again
• See All of my Grandchildren.
• Trace my Real Family tree
• See Ireland
• See Full Equal Rights come to American
• Be called 'Mom" by one of my Children

Quote from: pixiegirl on December 14, 2010, 07:45:06 PM
Gah, why Ireland and why is it at no.1....how much do you like rain?

Ireland is the place my mom has said she wants to visit. Honestly I'm not sure why but hey, a place with no snakes? I'm game, I hate snakes.

Good luck everyone with your list and tekla hey maybe you will climb Everest, ya never know. :)

let's see...

1. come to terms with who I am
2. come to terms with who I want to spend life with
3. have my academic degree
4. driving my own car & be an ok driver
5. working on a ranch in Montana
6. have a nicely built body
7. publish a book
8. write a few songs
9. have a simple job or two
10. ... this last one is for all them things that I don't know yet.

1: run my own clothing business (started once, screwed it up....will try again someday)
2: speak at least one other language (japanese top of list, would also like to learn german)
3: write a book (started)
4: live in japan
5: backpack around europe
6: own a house that I can make just how I want it
7: go to vegas with a ton of money I don't mind losing
8: learn to play the guitar really well
9: own a bakery/cafe/coffee house type thing (interchangeable with dream number 1, both would be a super dream :P)
10: show everyone just how a kid should be raised

1. Complete transition.
2.Live openly as the woman I know I am.
3. Be fully accepted by all my family.
4.  Have a hair transplant (see 1.).
5. Speak French and German.
6. Own a Ducati motorcycle
7. Build a boat and learn to sail it.
8. Live in Wester Ross in Scotland.(see 6 and 7)
9.  Visit the relatives I am supposed to have in Newfoundland.
10. Win squillions in Lotto so I can help all my friends here who need a hand.

1.  Travel around the world (I especially want to go to Ireland, New Zealand, and some place in the tropics, like the Bahamas)
2. Publish a book (I have one written, just not published yet)
3. Start a restaurant
4. Get rich
5. Lose a ton of weight
6. Have a partner (and lose my virginity  :'( that might count as two though  :D )
7.  Own a few really rare My Little Ponies
8. Make the world a better place for lots and lots of people
9.  Have a house of my own
10. Speak another language fluently
11.  Get the moobs chopped off  (I know, it's an extra one ...but I don't want to die wearing the chest danglies).

Hmmm 11 well, yeah I guess my ten were not involving transition so I'll have eleven as well

11. Transition entirely (potentially lower surgery)

Jmax: I like #7 it shows you aren't afraid to be yourself and I really admire that man.

I'd respond to everyone but that could get really long. I'm glad to see everyones posts though :) It's really awesome to see all of the different answers

1.  Go to all the Disney Land/Worlds -- just need to get to Tokoyo
2.  Visit all the Girl Scout/Girl Guide World Centers
3.  Become a judge
4.  Take a canoeing trip with my grandkids
5.  Legally marry my wife
6.  Learn to ride a motorcycle
7.  Take my wife to NYC
8.  Visit as many foreign countries as possible
9.  Lose a ton of weight & be happy with my body
10.  Own a house

Quote from: Michael Alexander on December 15, 2010, 04:43:10 AM
Hmmm 11 well, yeah I guess my ten were not involving transition so I'll have eleven as well

11. Transition entirely (potentially lower surgery)

Jmax: I like #7 it shows you aren't afraid to be yourself and I really admire that man.

Thanks dude. 

I did try to keep the list of ten non-transition related, but just had to throw that extra in.   ^-^

find the love of my life =]

1. Write epic novels
2. Be in 10 films at least
3. Have at least 15 albums out
4. Tour the world
5. Be mega wealthy, millions, and millions
6. Get married to wealth
7. Create a cult about myself
8. Make my body epitome of perfection
9. Have a business
10. Be happy... okay I don't know about this one so much, since this' ain't realistic.

To lie down next to and hug my wife
To be able to treat  seriously ill people with a hope of success
Have a paper in Nature or Science.
Not have to write grants every  week and be able do some work.
To be able to play music.
To relax

1. Become a published author.
2. (related to 1.) Make a living off of my Creative endeavours.
3. Get a school degree of some sort.
4. Travel to a couple exotic places.
5. Own my own home.
6. Adopt.
7. Own a Rottweiler named Grue.
8. Learn the art of tattooing.
9. Play or sing in a band.
10. Die Happy

1) Get at least one novel published
2) Get something published in 2000AD (british comic anthology for those that don't know)
3) Actually write an album and release it
4) Visit Australia
5) Visit the nordic countries
6) Find my german family
7) Go back to university and get an MA
8) Qualify as a teacher
9) be happy being me (working on that)
10) be a mum (ok I know I can't actually be a proper mum, but still)

1 - See most of Europe
2 - See most or all of the US
3 - Learn at least 1 martial art
4 - Find somewhere awesome to live :)
5 - Improve as much as I can at keyboard, drums, or both... maybe join a band
6 - Meet a wonderful someone and have a family
7 - Be happy in my own skin
8 - Volunteer (a lot) for worthy charities
9 - Start a business so I can work for myself
10 - Get much better at cooking, learn to sew my own clothes

1. Transition.
2. Get a job I like.
3. Leave the UK.
4. Learn another language, i'm thinking maybe German.
5. Learn to play bass.
6. Volunteer for charities.
7. Loose a lot of weight.
8.
9.
10.

I can only think of 7 at the moment. I'll edit if I think of something.

1. Live on my sailboat
2. with Julie
3. 12 mo/year warm weather climate
4. in a laid back harbor (no stuffed shirts)
5. close enough for island hopping
6. with my woodworking tools set up in a rustic shack
7. doing small wood & electrical projects for the boaters
8. making friends along the way
9. having my kids come to visit
10. and one day dying peacefully in my sleep

Throw is a few Margaritas, Rum Runners and some great seafood in between and that's just about perfect for me.

1. Fully transition
2. Marry the one Im completely in love with
3. Buy a house on a lake
4. Take a vacation to California
5. Pay my friggen car of
6. Find a job that I like in the career I finally choose
7. Be a parent
8. Make enough money to help my mom out and get her a nice place to live
9. Reconnect with my dad
10. Play guitar in a band

1; transition
2; study
3; BEACH VACATION , without going crazy by GiD!
4; visit Africa, Australia and Canada
5; go live somewhere
6; own a german sheppy, if possible a white one
7; be able to keep a nice job
8; stop living in isolation and be a remotely social guy
9; become a better artist
10; make 3D models for games for a living !

1.Get SRS so that I can complete my transition and change my sex to F!!
2.Marry someone (Preferably Justin Bieber!!)
3.Visit places like New York and Paris and Milan and Venice
4.Stay bff with Sami!
5.Adopt 2 or 3 beautiful kids with my husband
6.Live in a house right on the beach
7.Be able to afford to take kids in who are in transition and got kicked out etc. Help them out.
8.Finally decide on a career so I don't have to be poor.
9.Meet a few online friends
10.Meet Britney Spears.

1. Complete my transition with all my surgeries done.
2. Go to Anime Expo with no expenses spared cosplaying as Prince Endymion
3. Find the love of my life
4.Not get type 2 diabetes/high blood pressure/heart disease
5. Lose a lot of weight.
6.Travel to Brazil and Mardi gras
7.Be a badass lead villian in a movie and perform and win 2 MMA fights
8.Start my own charity helping other guys in their transition.
9. Make love
10.Surf and be rich

Quote from: Malachite on March 14, 2012, 09:38:10 PM
10.Surf and be rich

That's two totally separate things!

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Quote from: JasonRX on March 14, 2012, 09:45:04 PM
That's two totally separate things!

O:

Haha yeah once I submitted it I thought "oh crap I wanted to be rich" but I already had my ten things so I thought I would just slide that on in there some where ::)

1) visit Chernobyl
2) chest surgery
3) legally marry my GF of 6 years
4) buy a 1976 Cadillac convertible and paint it pink
5) full sleeve and chest and back tatts
6) sell a photograph
7) get into work where I can help trans people so they have an easier time
8) see a cure for Dravets
9) see aurora borealis
10) visit Germany




- no real order

1. Figure out ten things to do before I die.

2. Try not to die before the above happens.

1. Visit Places I've Always Wanted to see in the flesh ~ Macchu Picchu, Ankor Wat, Mamayev Kurgan, Petra, etc
2. Be able to live without the need for stealth
3. Find Love
4. Buy and renovate a farm and/or vineyard
1. Stop making lists.
B. Be more consistent.
7. Learn to count.
8. See Arsenal win the Champions League  :P
9. See a Mountain Gorilla in its natural habitat
10. Write and publish a book

1. Travel all the 48 states and canada many times threw out my life
2. live on a hippie commune at least twice ok 3 times and grow pot
3. have my own 200 acre farm in the least populated county east of the mississippi river
4.place an ad in mother earths news to meet a soulmate and then marry one and then have a child
5. Build + run recovery homes for ex drug addicts and alcoholics and trans people who are homeless
6. go to college and get 2 degrees in science just for the enrichment
7. buy an old historic farm and rebuild it
8. find the meaning to life
9. surrender everything, all my thoughts and views and ideas to above and serve as above will have me serve
10. die with one foot in this world and one in the next

ok i am up to number 7 now

6.5 transition gender .. sorry i missed mentioning that one..

PS: Some of them overlap

I like to see everyone's lists. It's really interesting. What we want/want to get done says a lot about us.

1. Live somewhere outside the US for a while
2. Perfect my Spanish
3. Complete pharmacy school
4. Be in a loving relationship/enjoy sex
5. Get fit
6. Learn as much as I can
7. Set up my own jewelry studio
8. Find peace
9. Get a tan (This may in fact be impossible.)
10. Make people smile

I wish this was 20 things to do before you kick the bucket.  >.> so many things........

If you typed it in italics, I'm sure you could sneak in 10 more :p

Or keep the answers vague, then they could apply to a few things  >:-)