A couple of years ago my wife had an argument with one of our neighbours, after a while the exchanges got really heated and the attention got focused on me, in a tirade of verbal abuse i got accused of being a "->-bleeped-<-got" and a "->-bleeped-<-" Now to show how upset i was i calmly walked out into the middle of the road and screamed as loud as i could "I AM A ->-bleeped-<-, I WEAR WOMENS CLOTHES" i refrained from shouting out i am a androgyne because (a) i didnt know what an andro was at the time and (b) our neighbours are a bit thick and the cant understand any words with more than 5 letters in them lol
Anyway i decided i would go down the cop shop to report this incident and i was asked in my own words to explain how i felt when it came to being male or female, to which i replied 60% female and 40% male. Why i came up with those percentages god only knows, mean to say why not use 51 ta 49?? now when i joined this site a couple of days ago you can imagine how freaky i felt when i see some of you on here stating you are 60/40 (your gonna have to changes it guys as i now have a copyright on this figure, i hear 70/27/2 cat and/1 indian elephant is still available though lol) I feel i have come up with this figure i feel cos i am very protective of my female side and as a way of rebelling against how society sees me.
I am just wondering what proportion of male and female you feel you are, if at all, and how you came to this conclusion.
Some where between 60/40 female/male and 60/40 male/female.
What day is it today?
You mean this is how the day is going to go?
Wow, I woke up feeling........
You talking to me? YOU TALKING TO ME?
OMG that is the most beautiful thing I have ever seen :'(
Shopping for the usual male attire? Or shopping for all the clothes I would buy if I had the $$?
Shave my legs or not?
Is that the 'I think you're attractive smile' from Him? Or Her? Or that person? Another Androgyne?
I can't believe how fast my mind switches from female to male and back until it then settles on where I need it to be for the situation.
Everyone looks Androgyne today :)
Babies and kittens put a thrill in my heart that makes it feel like life couldn't get any better.
I just love assault rifles and shooting a 50 cal just makes my day.
I bet I could do that in heels and a skirt and look really good doing it.
I think camo face paint and a little eyeliner and mascara looks good in the woods.
When my male logic fails to get the job done, my female logic will fix it.
It's somewhere in the middle there, that is if I understand the difference between male and female correctly.
I think that ativan captured it pretty good LOL.....
Generally, i sit at about an 80% male/20% female split, but just this week i went 100% female, and i've remained that way all week. This is *very* peculiar for me.
Bet it felt really good standing in the middle of the road, shouting like that.
shelly, you have my respect and admiration.
I'd say 80% male, 80% female and 53.65% dolphin.
Yeah, I identify as transmasculine and genderqueer, so I'm gonna go with about half male and half "other." I know which box I'd check if I had to, but, uhhh, do I have to?
Only on the Psyche tests, and thats only for the Psychiatrist.
Otherwise, just leave as many blank as you want to. No box checking required here.
Except maybe the dolphin box :D
my male side ranges between 40-60% day to day
me female side ranges between 60-80% day to day
they move independently of each other and have on rare ocations have felt both peak over 90% at the same time that was hell.
Ativan, ive gone down with one of the many flu bugs sweeping the nation at the moment and my ribs and chest really hurt, so reading your reply was the last thing i needed, cant remember the last time i laughed so much, but you did really hit the nail straight on the head especially the shave the leg thing, plenty of times i really cant be assed to shave them then the next thing im thinking blimey how the hell have i let them get so bad. Most of the times i think i am a normal bloke, i like everything sporty, gambling, beer and my lovely wife i just have erratic changes of mind...most of the times i think i am a normal woman, love clothes shopping, girly nights in and being pampered. Being andro is not all bad as due to the recent recession i went on the tv show MR and MRS as myself, but still didnt get all the questions right guess you never do know yourself lol
Spacial, i dont think i am anything special for mouthing off in the middle of the street, just see it as a way of sticking up for myself and showing folk i am not ashamed of being what i am, whatever that is. Sometimes look at life in general and feel sad for everyone going round like clones doing the same things and no matter if your rich or poor, you still all do the same thinks just to different standards.When i am not wishing everyone around me would be better off if i wasnt around, i look at myself and think, i really do love being me.
For gender, it's around 60% male, 40% androgyne. In terms of expression, it's 30% male, 50% androgyne and 20% female.
I'd say I'm 20-25% female and 75-80% male, but I is drizzunk on some deliciousa tequila. Typically, I have more swagger and attitude than most men, but stockings are sexy., goddamn it Even on my hairy legs (btw, I'm on a shaving hiatus...it's AWESOME. I has hairy legs).
I think that what you did was awesome. Just be you. No one can ask more of you than that.
I was clinically diagnosed to be dysphoric about my female self to a level indicating SRS AND dysphoric about my male self to a level indicating SRS. My gender is extremely digital, constantly flip-flopping between 100% guy and 100% girl.
Hi.
As my maths are very suss try this , 60 % male 60 % woman . it works for me ,
as you have seen no female in this i dont have my womb ,
& if you take it further im just really a mix of both.theres no one way or the other, reason being i think both ways at the same time .
& when you get to the real nitty gritty ,
im a brainwired intersex androgynous woman with a male background .
& to most people & they all know me & pretty much every thing,
im just accepeted as a woman with a background. so thats me really & the operative word is ........accepted........
...noeleena...
I would have loved to have seen you shouting in the middle of the street and the neighborhood reaction!
Seriously though, I would say i'm a 75/25 (male/female) but I will also add that the female part is not so much an inherent thing - it's more like a learned thing that I've developed over time. At least in the way of mannerisms or just how to "act" female. When I was a kid, I was not socialized AS female - my parents actually let go and did not drill into my head that I was female and was to only do female things and act female. So sure enough, I went more male from the get go.
However, I'm also really emotional ...to the point of being empathic even. This is not something that's traditionally viewed as male (although oddly enough two of my male friends are also empathic and emotional - guess we're all drawn to one another like magnets!). I also have the uncanny ability to "multitask" - which is something that's usually attributed to females over males.
Been really fascinated by by the replies i have been getting, not only on this thread but on others i have posted on this site, cant believe i have spent so many years thinking i was the only one, who was stuck out in the wilderness when i came to my female/male split. Insideontheoutside, later that night after my rant with my neighbour my son and his little army of friends could be heard marching off down the street chanting "we are ->-bleeped-<-s, we wear womens clothes" Funny thing about it was it got me so much respect and i was overwhelmed with the support i got off other neighbours, despite the fact that most of them already new that i was trans anyway due to one of them knowing me as Tara when i was on hormones and ya know what its like it only takes one and before you know it your in the papers.
Not always plain sailing for me as my kids still get teased over the fact that i sometimes wear leggins out in public, god knows what would happen if iwas to ever have an accident round here and someone had to rip off my top or trousers as you never know what delights lie underneath. I also have someone at work who started leaving little notes saying that he or she new my secret (hardly a secret nowadays i feel) and also this person keeps on arranging a mix of gawdy looking womens clothes together and leaving notes asking how much i would love to be wearing them, eh yeah right, yellow and green should never be seen apart from the colours inbetween!! some people just dont have any sense of fashion!!
Quote from: shelly on December 19, 2010, 08:16:53 AM
Been really fascinated by by the replies i have been getting, not only on this thread but on others i have posted on this site, cant believe i have spent so many years thinking i was the only one, who was stuck out in the wilderness when i came to my female/male split. Insideontheoutside, later that night after my rant with my neighbour my son and his little army of friends could be heard marching off down the street chanting "we are ->-bleeped-<-s, we wear womens clothes" Funny thing about it was it got me so much respect and i was overwhelmed with the support i got off other neighbours, despite the fact that most of them already new that i was trans anyway due to one of them knowing me as Tara when i was on hormones and ya know what its like it only takes one and before you know it your in the papers.
Not always plain sailing for me as my kids still get teased over the fact that i sometimes wear leggins out in public, god knows what would happen if iwas to ever have an accident round here and someone had to rip off my top or trousers as you never know what delights lie underneath. I also have someone at work who started leaving little notes saying that he or she new my secret (hardly a secret nowadays i feel) and also this person keeps on arranging a mix of gawdy looking womens clothes together and leaving notes asking how much i would love to be wearing them, eh yeah right, yellow and green should never be seen apart from the colours inbetween!! some people just dont have any sense of fashion!!
Interesting how sometimes it will gain you respect. My other half's uncle owned a liquor store out in the midwest once and there was this Vietnam vet guy who was just a cross dresser but he'd show up there in a pretty flowered dress to buy booze. Well the local yocals took it upon themselves to harass the guy one day and he hauled off and beat the crap out of 3 guys. 'Course that was an extreme scenario but I'll tell you what that guy had respect in that little town from there on out LOL
20% male, 20% female, 20% mix, 40% other, 10% dolphin, and 10% shark. (just kidding on those last two. :D )
my 8ball says 40% female, 40% neither and 15% male, 5% cat
I'm more like a cocktail, once it's all mixed together it s hard to say how much of each thing is in there.
I am 110% Zythyra ;D
Z
Quote from: Pica Pica on December 20, 2010, 02:22:37 AM
I'm more like a cocktail, once it's all mixed together it s hard to say how much of each thing is in there.
Do you come with an umbrella? :laugh:
I just want to say, I'd rather be stirred than shaken (cherries for the sweet, olives for the savory--there's a restaurant in Northern Michigan that puts a smoked chub in their bloody marys).
S
Quote from: Jaimey on December 20, 2010, 07:05:32 PM
Do you come with an umbrella? :laugh:
How could I not?
Depending on the day it can change drastically, but most days I feel about 80% male 20% female. There are some days I feel entirely genderless and some days I feel so homogenized I don't even know I could assign a numerical value.
Quote from: Pica Pica on December 20, 2010, 02:22:37 AM
I'm more like a cocktail, once it's all mixed together it s hard to say how much of each thing is in there.
putting numbers to how much I am seems strange as there is no real definition for Male or female and what I see as maleness or femaleness might be totally different to what everyone else see as such.
I know I'm more both then neither, more neither then female & more female then male.
I'm 150% me 0.01% normal 100% weird 0.009%, unique & 10% freak and the rest of what I am can not be explained using the english language but, I'm NOT confused
Quote from: Kinkly on January 12, 2011, 05:43:23 AM
... there is no real definition for Male or female and what I see as maleness or femaleness ...
I'm 150% me 0.01% normal 100% weird 0.009%, unique & 10% freak and the rest of what I am can not be explained using the english language but, I'm NOT confused
I'm not confused either. As for odd, strange, freak, all ok as I discovered long ago that I don't want to be like the rest of the world I've met anyway.
OOps, I'm not androgyne either.