I probably should have done this first insted of posting on other threads, but there you go.
I'm a female genderqueer, and though I definitely don't enjoy being (biologically) female, I don't think I should count myself as entirely male yet. I don't know anyone from the gender spectrum apart from cissexuals, and I haven't come out as genderqueer to anyone except one person.
I never realized I was genderqueer until October/November last year when being addressed as a "lady" and a "female" by teachers at my (very feminist and almost radfem) girls school and I started feeling uncomfortable about it - it felt like I was expected to be a woman even though I just didn't fit the criteria for it.
I didn't know since birth, and there was a long period of time when I felt comfortable with being classed as female, but now I'm an adolescent and I'm confused about my gender identity and no longer feel comfortable about being a girl.
In other words.. Hi! I'm SuKai (working title) and I go by any pronoun. If I ever work out if I'm a girl or a guy, the name will alter a little.
Otherwise - be nice, I'm a newbie! :)
Edit: I realize I posted this in the wrong section - sorry about that!
Hi Sukai welcome to Susan's. This is a great site with many many Nice people.
We look forward to your posts.
Hugs.
Patty
Hi SuKai, :icon_wave:
Welcome to our little family. Over 4800 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another member. :icon_hug:
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Hugs and Love,
Janet
Nice to meet you and welcome to Susan's. I hope you get everything figured out.
Thanks for the warm welcome. I'm glad to have joined - knowing there are 4800 others, I know I'll never be alone :)
SuKai