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Title: A big first today!!!
Post by: Britney♥Bieber on January 18, 2011, 11:35:28 PM
Yes, you might have heard the rumors buzzing, lol. But yes it's true! You're very own Britney got hit on today. For the first time!!!!!!!! I went out with one of my girlies and we shopped then to a movie, the guy taking our tickets was like "hey beautiful ladies:, and then told us what theater, and then was like "stay beautiful, alright?" I couldn't stop smiling. Niki really thinks he was hitting on me. She said he was looking at me first/more lol. I couldn't believe it!
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: toxicblue on January 18, 2011, 11:36:58 PM
That's great to hear!  Congrats!  =]
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Janet_Girl on January 19, 2011, 12:06:28 AM
Ah yes the first flirt.  You will remember it always, even if it never goes no way.   We all have that memory.
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Britney♥Bieber on January 19, 2011, 12:34:16 AM
haha yeah I couldn't stop smiling! Ahhh
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Melody Maia on January 19, 2011, 12:52:31 AM
Very nice. I need to get myself out there more so I can experience reaffirming things like this. Congrats!
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Britney♥Bieber on January 19, 2011, 12:55:56 AM
Quote from: Melody on January 19, 2011, 12:52:31 AM
Very nice. I need to get myself out there more so I can experience reaffirming things like this. Congrats!

:D thanks!!
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Cindy on January 19, 2011, 01:21:08 AM
Congrats Britney,

I'm not in the least bit surprised :laugh: :laugh:
:-* :-*
Cindy

Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Britney♥Bieber on January 19, 2011, 01:22:01 AM
Quote from: CindyJames on January 19, 2011, 01:21:08 AM
Congrats Britney,

I'm not in the least bit surprised :laugh: :laugh:
:-* :-*
Cindy

thanks :D
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: ClaireA on January 19, 2011, 07:25:13 AM
SO happy for you! Congratulations!
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: spacial on January 19, 2011, 10:03:38 AM
Britney.

To be quite honest, having seen a number of photos of you, I'm genuinely surprised this is the first time.

You really are a beautiful woman.

Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Britney♥Bieber on January 19, 2011, 12:40:27 PM
Quote from: ClaireA on January 19, 2011, 07:25:13 AM
SO happy for you! Congratulations!

Quote from: spacial on January 19, 2011, 10:03:38 AM
Britney.

To be quite honest, having seen a number of photos of you, I'm genuinely surprised this is the first time.

You really are a beautiful woman.



Thank you both! :)


Anyone have any suggestions on how to flirt back? Totally lost! :(
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Shang on January 19, 2011, 12:43:14 PM
Congrats!

Mimicking how the person moves on a date seems to be a decent indication of flirting.  Like, if you lay down and he lays down.  Or something similar.  But I fail with flirting and can't naturally flirt in any sense of the word.
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Janet_Girl on January 19, 2011, 12:49:26 PM
Chin down like you don't wish to met his eyes.  Then turn your head, looking at him and smile.  Wink also works.

If you really want to get 'lucky', just lick your upper lip.  ::)
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: pretty pauline on January 19, 2011, 12:58:54 PM
Quote from: Janet Lynn on January 19, 2011, 12:49:26 PM
Chin down like you don't wish to met his eyes.  Then turn your head, looking at him and smile.  Wink also works.

If you really want to get 'lucky', just lick your upper lip.  ::)
Absolutely agree, its called feminine charm, its a lovely confidence feeling when a guy looks and excepts you as a woman and ''looks at you in that way'' always gives me butterflies.
Pauline
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Britney♥Bieber on January 19, 2011, 01:01:08 PM
Quote from: LukasGabriel on January 19, 2011, 12:43:14 PM
Congrats!

Mimicking how the person moves on a date seems to be a decent indication of flirting.  Like, if you lay down and he lays down.  Or something similar.  But I fail with flirting and can't naturally flirt in any sense of the word.

Me too =X

Quote from: Janet Lynn on January 19, 2011, 12:49:26 PM
Chin down like you don't wish to met his eyes.  Then turn your head, looking at him and smile.  Wink also works.

If you really want to get 'lucky', just lick your upper lip.  ::)

That sounds good! Can't get lucky for l ike 2 years though lol! ;)

Quote from: pretty pauline on January 19, 2011, 12:58:54 PM
Absolutely agree, its called feminine charm, its a lovely confidence feeling when a guy looks and excepts you as a woman and ''looks at you in that way'' always gives me butterflies.
Pauline

It was the best feeling. I thought PASSING felt good! haha that doesn't even come close!
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Melody Maia on January 19, 2011, 01:31:51 PM
Ok, I'm taking notes! Also, I imagine a simple smile back would work.
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: V M on January 19, 2011, 01:44:43 PM
Congrats Britney   ;D

Unfortunately, I'm not very good at flirting and rarely even know when someone is flirting with me... Then I get too nervous and overwhelmed and either turn into an uncoordinated goof or freeze up and just stand there with a goofy smile on my face  :laugh:
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Britney♥Bieber on January 19, 2011, 03:28:24 PM
Quote from: Melody Maia on January 19, 2011, 01:31:51 PM
Ok, I'm taking notes! Also, I imagine a simple smile back would work.

Well I did that, and said thanks but if he was interested, I'd love to talk to him. How do I do that?


Quote from: Virginia Marie on January 19, 2011, 01:44:43 PM
Congrats Britney   ;D

Unfortunately, I'm not very good at flirting and rarely even know when someone is flirting with me... Then I get too nervous and overwhelmed and either turn into an uncoordinated goof or freeze up and just stand there with a goofy smile on my face  :laugh:

Haha me last night! lol
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Janet_Girl on January 19, 2011, 03:37:48 PM
Quote from: Britney♥Bieber on January 19, 2011, 03:28:24 PM
Well I did that, and said thanks but if he was interested, I'd love to talk to him. How do I do that?


Ah  There is a word that starts most conversations.  Once you have flirted with him and he returns the smile, try this word.
HI
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Britney♥Bieber on January 19, 2011, 03:43:23 PM
Quote from: Janet Lynn on January 19, 2011, 03:37:48 PM
Ah  There is a word that starts most conversations.  Once you have flirted with him and he returns the smile, try this word.
HI

Ahh I can't imagine just doing that! But I'll try lol. :D
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: CaitJ on January 19, 2011, 04:37:17 PM
High Five sister!  ;D
<insert anecdote about the first time I was hit on>
Feels fricken awesome, don't it?  :D
It will only happen more often from here. Get used to it!
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Rock_chick on January 19, 2011, 05:09:48 PM
definite hi five!

Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Britney♥Bieber on January 19, 2011, 05:57:24 PM
Quote from: Vexing on January 19, 2011, 04:37:17 PM
High Five sister!  ;D
<insert anecdote about the first time I was hit on>
Feels fricken awesome, don't it?  :D
It will only happen more often from here. Get used to it!


YESSS I felt like I was buzzing. Too bad the movie we saw made me cry 5 times lol. I loved it anyways :D

Quote from: Helena on January 19, 2011, 05:09:48 PM
definite hi five!



Thanks girly~ haha
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Jacquelyn on January 19, 2011, 07:26:30 PM
Quote from: Janet Lynn on January 19, 2011, 03:37:48 PM
Ah  There is a word that starts most conversations.  Once you have flirted with him and he returns the smile, try this word.
HI


Ohhhh... So that's how that works. Listen to Mama Janet, Brittney. :)
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Britney♥Bieber on January 19, 2011, 07:30:30 PM
Quote from: Jacquelyn on January 19, 2011, 07:26:30 PM

Ohhhh... So that's how that works. Listen to Mama Janet, Brittney. :)

Yes I should lol. Next time a guy hits on me, if he's cute, I'll be like hi sexy. lol jk. I think I get the gist, depending on the situation. Like I could be like hey :D or you're cute too :D or *lifts shirt* like my boobs? lol!
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Colleen Ireland on January 19, 2011, 07:32:01 PM
Okay, Brit... you are hereby banned from the "Do I pass" thread, it is now redundant for you...  :police: :laugh: ;)
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Jacquelyn on January 19, 2011, 07:47:01 PM
Quote from: Britney♥Bieber on January 19, 2011, 07:30:30 PM
Yes I should lol. Next time a guy hits on me, if he's cute, I'll be like hi sexy. lol jk. I think I get the gist, depending on the situation. Like I could be like hey :D or you're cute too :D or *lifts shirt* like my boobs? lol!

*Facepalm* Britttt. Hahahahaha
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Melody Maia on January 19, 2011, 08:28:59 PM
Quote from: Britney♥Bieber on January 19, 2011, 07:30:30 PM
Yes I should lol. Next time a guy hits on me, if he's cute, I'll be like hi sexy. lol jk. I think I get the gist, depending on the situation. Like I could be like hey :D or you're cute too :D or *lifts shirt* like my boobs? lol!

That only works at Mardi Gras. Otherwise the unsuspecting males pass out from loss of blood to their brains. LOL  ;D

Then there was this time at college where there was a tradition at the first snowfall called the "nude olympics." It involved lots of naked male and female sophomores and lots of alcohol. The bystanders would get into it too and the girl across from me got worked up, grabbed the hem of her shirt and...but I digress  >:-)
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Britney♥Bieber on January 19, 2011, 08:47:29 PM
Quote from: Colleen Ireland on January 19, 2011, 07:32:01 PM
Okay, Brit... you are hereby banned from the "Do I pass" thread, it is now redundant for you...  :police: :laugh: ;)

Haha yay!! :D

Quote from: Jacquelyn on January 19, 2011, 07:47:01 PM
*Facepalm* Britttt. Hahahahaha

:D I would never.............................................................. ::)

Quote from: Melody Maia on January 19, 2011, 08:28:59 PM
That only works at Mardi Gras. Otherwise the unsuspecting males pass out from loss of blood to their brains. LOL  ;D

Then there was this time at college where there was a tradition at the first snowfall called the "nude olympics." It involved lots of naked male and female sophomores and lots of alcohol. The bystanders would get into it too and the girl across from me got worked up, grabbed the hem of her shirt and...but I digress  >:-)


hahaha true/
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Lacey Lynne on January 23, 2011, 12:48:35 AM
Quote from: spacial on January 19, 2011, 10:03:38 AM
Britney.

To be quite honest, having seen a number of photos of you, I'm genuinely surprised this is the first time.

You really are a beautiful woman.

Britney, honey, notice that we "geezer girls" on here are ALL unanimously telling you:

You've GOT it!

Girl, we've all been girl-watching since the 1960s ... we know our women!

Once YOU have been on full-tilt HRT for 2-3 years, forget about it!  Sell the bus, baby, because the trip is over!  You've arrived at Babesville!  If Lea T. can be a supermodel, you can too.  You've got the goods, girl.  Again, we "geezer girls" have been around ... for a long time ... and are all telling you the truth.   Flattery will get one everywhere ... especially if they're not trying to get anywhere!  Accept our sincere compliments, hon.

Work it!    :D   Lacey
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Britney♥Bieber on January 23, 2011, 01:02:36 AM
Quote from: Lacey Lynne on January 23, 2011, 12:48:35 AM
Britney, honey, notice that we "geezer girls" on here are ALL unanimously telling you:

You've GOT it!

Girl, we've all been girl-watching since the 1960s ... we know our women!

Once YOU have been on full-tilt HRT for 2-3 years, forget about it!  Sell the bus, baby, because the trip is over!  You've arrived at Babesville!  If Lea T. can be a supermodel, you can too.  You've got the goods, girl.  Again, we "geezer girls" have been around ... for a long time ... and are all telling you the truth.   Flattery will get one everywhere ... especially if they're not trying to get anywhere!  Accept our sincere compliments, hon.

Work it!    :D   Lacey

Thanks Lacey! :D And I don't got the goods yet! lol they're still baby goods hahaha. =/ But thank you :)
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: MeghanAndrews on January 23, 2011, 10:56:53 AM
Ok, AWESOME!!!!!!

;)
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Britney♥Bieber on January 23, 2011, 12:21:06 PM
Quote from: MeghanAndrews on January 23, 2011, 10:56:53 AM
Ok, AWESOME!!!!!!

;)

Can't wait for it to happen again! lol.
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Melody Maia on January 23, 2011, 06:20:03 PM
Quote from: Britney♥Bieber on January 23, 2011, 12:21:06 PM
Can't wait for it to happen again! lol.

I can't wait for it to happen the first time for me!
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Lacey Lynne on January 23, 2011, 09:04:38 PM
Quote from: Melody Maia on January 19, 2011, 08:28:59 PM
That only works at Mardi Gras. Otherwise the unsuspecting males pass out from loss of blood to their brains. LOL  ;D

Then there was this time at college where there was a tradition at the first snowfall called the "nude olympics." It involved lots of naked male and female sophomores and lots of alcohol. The bystanders would get into it too and the girl across from me got worked up, grabbed the hem of her shirt and...but I digress  >:-)

Melody, honey, I can guaran-damn-TEE you ... that did NOT happen when I was in college (1973-1977) ... or anything even remotely like it.  Wish it had!   

You kids!  How I envy you!

:D   Lacey

Actually, I still can't believe it, but the first time I went out publicly en femme (at our major mall nearby) as I was walking back to the car after leaving the mall, this guy in his 20s cruises by, honks his horn and whistles!

So, what did I do?  By sheer reflex and impulse, turned and yelled, "Hey!  Get the hell outta here!"  ... in my guy voice! 

He didn't hear me 'cause he blasted away after he whistled.  Because I'm still into women, I reacted back like a doggone guy!  Oops!    :P   Gotta be careful 'bout that ... jeesh!    ;)
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Melody Maia on January 23, 2011, 10:52:17 PM
Quote from: Lacey Lynne on January 23, 2011, 09:04:38 PM
Melody, honey, I can guaran-damn-TEE you ... that did NOT happen when I was in college (1973-1977) ... or anything even remotely like it.  Wish it had!   

You kids!  How I envy you!

:D   Lacey

Actually, I still can't believe it, but the first time I went out publicly en femme (at our major mall nearby) as I was walking back to the car after leaving the mall, this guy in his 20s cruises by, honks his horn and whistles!

So, what did I do?  By sheer reflex and impulse, turned and yelled, "Hey!  Get the hell outta here!"  ... in my guy voice! 

He didn't hear me 'cause he blasted away after he whistled.  Because I'm still into women, I reacted back like a doggone guy!  Oops!    :P   Gotta be careful 'bout that ... jeesh!    ;)

I went to college 1989-1993. Unfortunately, the school outlawed the nude olympics in later years because too many sophomores were getting very inebriated and passing out naked in the snow. Some boys came close to freezing off vital parts!  :laugh:
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: blair on February 01, 2011, 01:17:39 AM
Congratulations Britney! That's so awesome. There's nothing like that feeling. I can't say I'm surprised though, I'm quite jealous when I see your pictures. When are you going to be on the cover of Maxim in a skimpy outfit?  ;)
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Britney♥Bieber on February 01, 2011, 01:34:16 AM
Quote from: blair on February 01, 2011, 01:17:39 AM
Congratulations Britney! That's so awesome. There's nothing like that feeling. I can't say I'm surprised though, I'm quite jealous when I see your pictures. When are you going to be on the cover of Maxim in a skimpy outfit?  ;)
haha thanks! As soon as I lose like a bajillion pounds lol
Title: Re: A big first today!!!
Post by: Maddie Secutura on February 09, 2011, 04:42:43 PM
Losing weight is a good and bad thing.  Yeah it will get the rest of your body in shape but you might risk shrinking the girls.  I think that's why mine haven't gotten any bigger in the last year. Oh and getting hit on by cute guys is awesome.  Too bad it's usually the ones you don't want hitting on you who do it.