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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: Alex201 on January 23, 2011, 09:03:21 PM

Title: Is it okay to be a flirt??
Post by: Alex201 on January 23, 2011, 09:03:21 PM
I'm a flirt. I flirt with everyting. Including mannequins.



Title: Re: Is it okay to be a flirt??
Post by: Alex201 on January 23, 2011, 09:14:30 PM
Hey Alex, I just wanted to tell you that this post is pathetically pointless.
Title: Re: Is it okay to be a flirt??
Post by: LordKAT on January 23, 2011, 09:39:29 PM
Why not? It may lead to a serious response.
Title: Re: Is it okay to be a flirt??
Post by: Lee11 on January 23, 2011, 09:54:01 PM
I think it's totally okay and part of the whole TG experience when it comes to be able to flirt in the gender role you finally feel comfortable in.....
Title: Re: Is it okay to be a flirt??
Post by: xAndrewx on January 23, 2011, 10:19:01 PM
Haha I hope it is because I sure am one too! Although flirting with mannequins is possibly.... just maybe... sorta odd :P
Title: Re: Is it okay to be a flirt??
Post by: little_green on January 23, 2011, 10:20:12 PM
It's always ok! Except when it's not ha ha
Title: Re: Is it okay to be a flirt??
Post by: Al James on January 24, 2011, 07:44:01 AM
Be careful- sometimes mannequins come alive
Title: Re: Is it okay to be a flirt??
Post by: Lachlann on January 24, 2011, 08:41:44 AM
Gay, Straight, Bisexual, Trans, Cis, it doesn't really matter.

Nothing wrong with being a flirt it's just that sometimes you have to be careful with your boundaries, but then... everyone has limits on when it's OK and when it isn't OK to flirt. Flirting can just be meaningless banter, it doesn't actually have to suggest an interest.

I'm a flirt, I often flirt with my female friends a lot but a lot of the time I don't actually mean any of it. If I'm interested, then yeah, it becomes a little more serious but there are times when I wont flirt seriously. Time and place.
Title: Re: Is it okay to be a flirt??
Post by: PixieBoy on January 24, 2011, 11:26:30 AM
I don't know how you flirt, and I can't even tell the most glaringly obvious signs of when someone is flirting with me. However, once, I did get insanely jealous when two guys approached my ex-friend and started talking with her, while I was there. I just wanted to punch them in the face or something, tell them to back off. I was in love with this ex-friend, though, and love clouds judgement, as the guys were about twice my size and would kick my chubby arse in 10 seconds.

I'm sorry if I derail the thread, but yeah... I loved her very much, and now she's essentially broken up with me just because I happen to be trans. She's lovely and smart and I just wanted a chance to make her happy, to spend time with her, to run my hand through her soft hair, to hold her and make sure everything would be okay. I still miss her.
Title: Re: Is it okay to be a flirt??
Post by: Ryno on January 24, 2011, 02:11:16 PM
Yeah man, as long as you're not tied down.

Hahahaha.

:(

I mean. I love my girlfriend and I think she's drop-dead gorgeous.

But for the first time in my life straight girls are noticing me and all I can do is smile and look away.

So flirt away, my friend, flirt away.
Title: Re: Is it okay to be a flirt??
Post by: Shang on January 24, 2011, 02:16:44 PM
Flirt away.  But if you're in a committed relationship and your SO doesn't want you flirting, then don't flirt.

I, personally, have no idea how to flirt and can't tell when someone's flirting with me. XD
Title: Re: Is it okay to be a flirt??
Post by: SnailPace on January 24, 2011, 02:26:41 PM
Hey all you beautiful people in this thread,

What are ya doin' later? Also, has anyone ever told you that you have the softest looking skin?
Title: Re: Is it okay to be a flirt??
Post by: Shang on January 24, 2011, 02:45:30 PM
Quote from: SnailPace on January 24, 2011, 02:26:41 PM
Hey all you beautiful people in this thread,

What are ya doin' later? Also, has anyone ever told you that you have the softest looking skin?

Marry me? XD :P :D

I couldn't resist....that's a better pick-up line than I've heard ever. xD
Title: Re: Is it okay to be a flirt??
Post by: Lee on January 24, 2011, 03:28:19 PM
I flirt a lot with my friends, but most of it is just joking around.

I just wanted to add my favorite pickup line ever:
I was playing DDR with a friend of mine and some of the guys in his dorm.  As I was leaving, a guy held open the door to his room and said "Want to come dance dance with me?" and winked.  I think my laughing bruised his ego.
Title: Re: Is it okay to be a flirt??
Post by: gilligan on January 24, 2011, 08:36:12 PM
I may be asexual, but I still enjoy flirting. I don't mean anything by it - it's just fun. But I only flirt with friends, because they know I don't mean anything by it.