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Title: I'm Back
Post by: Nigella on January 31, 2011, 02:55:24 PM

Hi all,

I left Susan's a few months ago after my surgery as I thought I needed a break from all this gender stuff and just concentrate on being me for the first time in my life. Well, after six months post op, (nearly seven now, lol). I've decided that I am at a point where the gender stuff is not really part of my life any more and I'm just living my life. I came to this point just after Christmas when I was having a bath and thinking things and it hit me. I could not remember how it was to have male anatomy and that being female seemed as though it had always been. Since then I've thought about whether I should come back and if I did I would not have it take over my life as my gender dysphoria had done for so many years.

So in saying all this in a kind of convoluted way, I'm back, I may not always look in everyday, but I will give advice, thoughts and try to help others if and when I can.

I had to make the break and it was a good decision to make at the time so I could just live. Now I have time to give as my dilation is now down to once a day (I could not believe how that took over my life in the first few months, lol).

So I'm saying hi and sorry for missing some of those girls who I know/knew who have had their GRS too, congrats to you and keep focused, lol.

Stardust

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Post by: spacial on January 31, 2011, 03:52:10 PM

Great to see you Stardust

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Post by: Debra on January 31, 2011, 03:56:55 PM

Welcome back!

Title: Re: I'm Back
Post by: Nigella on January 31, 2011, 04:03:30 PM

Quote from: Jerica on January 31, 2011, 03:56:55 PM
Welcome back!

Thanks you two. Jerica, WOW, I see only a month or so to go, I remember when it was a year to go. Thinking of you as you lead up to it.

Stardust Xx

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Post by: Rock_chick on January 31, 2011, 04:06:47 PM

Welcome back hun

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Post by: Debra on January 31, 2011, 04:18:38 PM

Quote from: stardust on January 31, 2011, 04:03:30 PM
Thanks you two. Jerica, WOW, I see only a month or so to go, I remember when it was a year to go. Thinking of you as you lead up to it.

Stardust Xx

Squeeeeeeeeeee! Thanks! I can hardly contain my excitement =)

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Post by: Janet_Girl on January 31, 2011, 06:28:14 PM

Welcome back Stardust.

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Post by: bethw on January 31, 2011, 07:10:31 PM

Welcome back Stardust. You've been missed.
Hugs
Beth

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Post by: LordKAT on January 31, 2011, 11:20:17 PM

Let me add to the list, Welcome back!

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Post by: AweSAM! on January 31, 2011, 11:41:36 PM

Missed you Stardust; welcome back!

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Post by: Michelle. on February 01, 2011, 12:43:00 AM

Pweez stay this time.

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Post by: Nigella on February 01, 2011, 05:04:58 PM

Thanks all, I'm over whelmed with the welcome back. Well, I will do what I can to help with thoughts and advice for what that's worth, lol. All I have done in the past is to pass on my experience, that's all.

Luv to all

Stardust Xxx

Title: Re: I'm Back
Post by: Cruelladeville on February 02, 2011, 10:52:25 AM

Hey you....

Time-out is a natural order of things...

As would be even leaving for good too....

Any forum group will have ebbs-n-flows.... but great to see yer grinning chops again Stardust...

And your well thought through considerate commenys i'm sure will be savoured once more by the many here, oft needing a kind word or two...

Title: Re: I'm Back
Post by: Nigella on February 02, 2011, 05:19:06 PM

Thanks again for all your kind welcomes back. Life is good and can't wait for the summer months to get that bikini out, lol.

Stardust

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