I kind of like this guy, I mean he is cool and stuff. I just don't know if I could actually be with him. Because he doesn't want to transition at all. And I just am not attracted to the female body that much. I want to like him. I do , maybe just not physically. I guess he identifies as genderqueer. It would be easier if I could just like someone else. I feel like I suck a lot right now. I don't think just liking/loving someone is enough sometimes. I wish I could not see that in a person but I do. I've always thought of myself as gay, and I don't even know if I could be with someone like him.
I hope you can sort out your differences.
But in all honesty, if someone doesn't like any part of you, then they really don't like you at all.
Like everyone, you're a complete package. Perfect as you are. He needs to either, accept that, or grow up.