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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: Eve of chaos on February 05, 2011, 09:41:50 PM

Title: new haircut pictures. opinions?
Post by: Eve of chaos on February 05, 2011, 09:41:50 PM
So I got my haircut today :p and although it doesn't look terribly different its on its way and its much more feminine than before at least.

so I decided to take some pics and get people's opinions, I have done everything I can think of without hormones and want to get the best feel for how well I can expect to pass.

so enjoy!

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(gf's favorite)
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blegh I personally don't see anything but boy in every pic but I am too accustomed to my face to make any real discretion.
Title: Re: new haircut pictures. opinions?
Post by: JustAnotherDreamer on February 05, 2011, 09:53:29 PM
I like it. :)
I'm not sure why but you kinda remind me of > http://www.youtube.com/user/debutantebrawl (http://www.youtube.com/user/debutantebrawl)

Title: Re: new haircut pictures. opinions?
Post by: Kyndra R. on February 05, 2011, 10:14:32 PM
About 6 years ago I had all my hair cut off in the middle of a very life changing time and I donated it to locks for love.  As I grew it back out I had a style very much like yours.  I like it, I think it frames you face nicely. 

Kyndra
XXOO
Title: Re: new haircut pictures. opinions?
Post by: JessicaR on February 05, 2011, 10:18:39 PM
I would so definitely ask U out  ;D

....giggle........ tee hee!
Title: Re: new haircut pictures. opinions?
Post by: Britney♥Bieber on February 05, 2011, 10:22:31 PM
Looooove it =D
Title: Re: new haircut pictures. opinions?
Post by: Eve of chaos on February 05, 2011, 10:30:21 PM
aw thanks everyone^.^
Title: Re: new haircut pictures. opinions?
Post by: Britney♥Bieber on February 05, 2011, 10:36:21 PM
I just read you aren't on hormones? Well girl don't worry, I think you'll be super pretty once you are on hormones.

I only have to say you could try thinning out your eyebrows. I've "cleaned" mine up by getting all the strays first. Then decided I was ready to shape them. I trimmed them (with help on the first time lol) and then I shaped them (again with help) and I think it's made a huge change. :)

Also, eye liner on top of your eyes would make you look more fem, that's what my bestie always said before I could do it on my top lid.
Title: Re: new haircut pictures. opinions?
Post by: VeryGnawty on February 05, 2011, 10:39:44 PM
Quote from: Britney♥Bieber on February 05, 2011, 10:36:21 PM
I just read you aren't on hormones? Well girl don't worry, I think you'll be super pretty once you are on hormones.

I agree.  Eve is already cute.  The prospects for what hormones would do is staggering.

I even think I have good prospects for transition, and I'm ugly.
Title: Re: new haircut pictures. opinions?
Post by: Eve of chaos on February 05, 2011, 10:43:55 PM
nope not on hormones yet :p

but yeah I got the brows waxed about a month ago, guess its time to get that redone haha

also I have the hardest time with eyeliner, it feels so weiiird to put on, like Im poking my eye, guess i gotta learn :p
Title: Re: new haircut pictures. opinions?
Post by: Britney♥Bieber on February 05, 2011, 11:01:00 PM
Giiirl trust me it is hard and I swore I'd never get it, but then one day I kept practicing and realized ->-bleeped-<- I got this down! woot
Title: Re: new haircut pictures. opinions?
Post by: rexgsd on February 05, 2011, 11:03:18 PM
cuuute! i love the hair, it reminded me kinda of an old school style of hair, like from a few decades ago, but that's a good thing! that type of hair is totally beautiful looking.
(p.s. i like that white flowers shirt in the last few pics :3 )
Title: Re: new haircut pictures. opinions?
Post by: Eve of chaos on February 06, 2011, 02:44:52 AM
I truly wish I could see the girl in these pictures and not just the boy trying to be one :p

I cant quite pin it but theres something thats giving me away, i notice it the most in the side shot, but idk what it could be.
Title: Re: new haircut pictures. opinions?
Post by: justmeinoz on February 06, 2011, 06:30:04 AM
Definitely more feminine hair.  Having bushier eyebrows means there is more to work with to get a larger arch than my thin ones can, so I wouldn't be too concerned about them.
Title: Re: new haircut pictures. opinions?
Post by: Rock_chick on February 06, 2011, 06:38:33 AM
All I can see is an attractive young woman...especially in that first pic. I thin that hair cut really suits you hun.
Title: Re: new haircut pictures. opinions?
Post by: Susan S. on February 06, 2011, 07:46:48 AM
I really like your hairstyle.As far as makeup (eyeliner),It just takes a bit of practice.I had several "raccoon moments" until I was able to get it  ;).I agree with everyone else that after you begin hormones,you will see a vast difference.
Hugs,
Suzi S.
Title: Re: new haircut pictures. opinions?
Post by: spacial on February 06, 2011, 07:58:02 AM
Your hair looks really nice.

But remember the Susans' addage, You're your own worst critic.

Thank you so much for sharing these. It's good to see you.
Title: Re: new haircut pictures. opinions?
Post by: Britney♥Bieber on February 06, 2011, 08:15:05 AM
Quote from: Eve of Chaos on February 06, 2011, 02:44:52 AM
I truly wish I could see the girl in these pictures and not just the boy trying to be one :p

I cant quite pin it but theres something thats giving me away, i notice it the most in the side shot, but idk what it could be.

Hey now! Don't be so hard on yourself babe. Look at me; I've been on hormones for 4 months (full time after about 1) and numerous people on Susan's tell me if they didn't know I was trans, they probably wouldn't guess. And I've had friends tell me they're friends/family/etc were shocked and couldn't believe I was trans. Now...you tell me what you see. Boy or girl? I can assure you that I still see that sad little boy that I hated so much. But I'm learning. Idk how old you are but I identified (wrongly -____-) as a male for 19 years. I looked in the mirror, and at pictures etc and knew that I was Michael, a boy. That never made me very happy so I tried to ignore it lol.


So what I'm saying is, you look good for this point in transition, I think you're doing great so far. =D Wait till you get on hormones =D

btw here's a picture of me pre hrt
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Chose this one because I'm wearing a ton of makeup, it's a cute picture, and I just feel like it's the most feminine I looked pre hormones. =/
Title: Re: new haircut pictures. opinions?
Post by: Skyanne on February 06, 2011, 09:42:20 AM
Wow, I wish I looked as feminine as you do pre-hormones Eve! You're a lucky girl!
Title: Re: new haircut pictures. opinions?
Post by: JessicaR on February 06, 2011, 11:02:42 AM
...If I could make one suggestion...

  I think that one of the things that get Tgirls clocked easiest is posture. I noticed that in several of your pics (especially the profile view that you mentioned) your shoulders are slouched and your head hanging forward and down. SO MANY of us carry this posture throughout transition and beyond.
  Try this in the mirror...  stand up straight, shoulders back and boobies pushing out (ok, pretend for now)  your head up straight like you were trying something to balance something on top... Be confident! This transition stuff is 75% attitude! ;-) Take some pics with that in mind and I think you'll be pleased with what you see :-)
  I do think you have features that will react very well to hormones, though... I especially like your eyes.
Title: Re: new haircut pictures. opinions?
Post by: Rock_chick on February 06, 2011, 11:57:26 AM
Quote from: Eve of Chaos on February 05, 2011, 10:43:55 PM
also I have the hardest time with eyeliner, it feels so weiiird to put on, like Im poking my eye, guess i gotta learn :p

Once you've had to put it on every morning before work it kind of gets a lot easier :)
Title: Re: new haircut pictures. opinions?
Post by: Elijah3291 on February 06, 2011, 12:23:52 PM
it looks good and yes, much more feminine
Title: Re: new haircut pictures. opinions?
Post by: Eve of chaos on February 06, 2011, 01:31:15 PM
I'm hoping most of the posture has to do with me looking down at my short girlfriend taking the pictures. :p

but I see what you mean. I've worked on my posture a lot lately, mostly with sitting straight up in chairs and the like, it feels very awkward to straighten the head though, I also dont like how much taller I feel haha,
Title: Re: new haircut pictures. opinions?
Post by: Amazon D on February 07, 2011, 08:03:19 AM
Your lucky with dark facial hair it works best for laser hair removal. They can cost as low as 50.00 a session. With testes removal or taking spiranolactone your bone structure will stay the same and so your very very lucky not counting your height.
Title: Re: new haircut pictures. opinions?
Post by: Eve of chaos on February 07, 2011, 03:20:55 PM
Quote from: M2MtF2FtM on February 07, 2011, 08:03:19 AM
Your lucky with dark facial hair it works best for laser hair removal. They can cost as low as 50.00 a session. With testes removal or taking spiranolactone your bone structure will stay the same and so your very very lucky not counting your height.

I try to think that I'm lucky with taht but i get nervous taht I'm setting myself up to be let down :p

either way thats the route I think im gonna take, even if laser isnt 100% permanent I need reduction fast since I cant seem to ever shave it clsoe enough. and I will no be able to go out in public untill its gone :p
Title: Re: new haircut pictures. opinions?
Post by: Rachael on February 09, 2011, 01:04:39 AM
I think ur hair looks marvelous on you
Title: Re: new haircut pictures. opinions?
Post by: MarinaM on February 09, 2011, 01:33:30 AM
Quote from: Eve of Chaos on February 07, 2011, 03:20:55 PM
I try to think that I'm lucky with taht but i get nervous taht I'm setting myself up to be let down :p

either way thats the route I think im gonna take, even if laser isnt 100% permanent I need reduction fast since I cant seem to ever shave it clsoe enough. and I will no be able to go out in public untill its gone :p

I like your hair :) The only thing I don't like is your posture, but I only say so because you asked about what gives you away. I think rather progressively and will see you as you wish to be seen.

As for beard shadow and going outside, I don't like caking on makeup, but the coverfx cream 3 in 1 foundation does a good job of covering everything it touches. It can even cover a tattoo! (why do I feel like their spokeswoman?). I just bought some last week. When you cleanse your face, try not to use things that will shrink your pores such as astringents and acne medications, as they exaggerate beard shadow. You look like an E30, I'm an E40 (those are the color codes).
Title: Re: new haircut pictures. opinions?
Post by: bethw on February 09, 2011, 05:54:13 AM
Hi Eve;
All I see is a cute young girl. Maybe a little tomboyish but still a very cute young lady. I love the new hairstyle.
Hugs
Beth