Hi
Is there a section we can just waffle on a bit because we feel a bit isolated, and there is nobody around you can talk to in person, not even family, close friends etc.
So feel better that I can express my thoughts and feelings to someone else than just keeping my own diary files which I only read. There is someone else, sort of, locally, who I have corresponded with and phoned, but I feel I need others to hear me, read me, no matter how incoherent, sulky etc I may sometimes be.
My Brina side is stronger post Xmas, when a relative was staying, but I still question and doubt her
Brina
Welcome to Susan's, Brina!
I think you will find that you will feel better getting support and responses to your thoughts then just keeping them in a diary. I am the same way, I give props to people who keep journals and diaries for themselves, I have made that a resolution more than once. It usually lasts two weeks, if that. There is no 'standard' for how you must be here. If you are sad, we will try our best to make you feel better; if you are happy we will share in your happiness.
This site is full of information and support that I have yet to find anywhere else. Don't be shy, we don't bite. :)
I hope to see you around the site!
Hugs,
Jacquelyn
Hi Brina,
I'm glad you joined. This is a great place to share.
As far as a forum you can post in any that you are intrested in.
The guy and girls here don't mined.
I know I didn't know who I was but was accepted right away.
Your part of our family now so join in.
So welcome to Susan's Brina.
Hugs,
Jillieann
Hi Brina, :icon_wave:
Welcome back to our little family. Over 5400 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another sister. :icon_hug:
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Hugs and Love,
Janet
Thanks everyone,
I hope nobody is going to be offended in any way, but I do find my en femme side ridiculous. I am not the most macho but have the appearance of a regular heterosexual guy/ bloke in many ways.
Would love to have a girlfriend, but part of me would love to be a female myself.
I have been looking up on ideas around love shyness and involuntary celibacy and wonder if my lack of sexual confidence is a factor in my cross gendered feelings- though I know many cross dressers etc, are in relationships with women, so it would naive to think Brina would disappear if the right girl came along. Is my femme side making me more shyer about whisking women off their feet!?
Nobody is pointing a gun at my head to force me to cross dress, and I would love to pass , at least on photo as a woman, and now wanting to step outside my front door as Brina, though I couldn't step out in broad daylight, at the moment.
I am trying to imagine how I would like to look, if I was really a woman. Looking at my images, I am bit by bit improving, probably still making some very schoolgirl errors, but I want the image to reflect me, but as a woman.