What is the best way to meet a transexual for a long term relationship? Websites seem to be filled with professional girls but I'm looking for someone genuine to spend time with. Any suggestions?
Why you want transsexual? I dont think that someone want be your transfriend, because they (we) want to live as normal as possible.
You can try some forum or if you have a luck you can met someone outside (at mall, bar, ....)
Ah.... the 'genuine transgendered girlfriend'....experience...
I beleive there's an hourly weekend rate to cover that too....
Would that be pre or post op?
Your problem in a nutshell is that those of us who have completed the journey do not regard ourselves as transsexual. We are either women or men who happen to have an unusual past. Most MtF's and some FtM's will have had genital correction surgery too, so you may indeed have met one or more of us in the past but certainly with more successful of us, you simply will not know unless we choose to reveal it to you, which some may, but others may not.
Now if instead you opt for a relationship with someone "in transition" then by definition your relationship will change as they make progress. Very few transitioners wish to become stuck in the "middle ground". So if that is what you are looking for, then you are seeking a small minority within a minority - Most of those whom you may meet will wish to complete their journey and once they have done so they will not want you to remind them of what they once were.
But to answer the question at face value, transsexuals are out there in the population. I live in a small town in south west UK. Out of a population of under 10,000 we have at least 5 transpeople that I know of. From long experience of the UK I would say that this is fairly average which means that about 1 in every 2000 people you meet will statistically have a trans background. But we do not have special places we go to. We are not like the porno fetish freaks on the net. We do not have rampant sex, we do not go to special clubs. We are just ORDINARY people, and so you meet us in the same way that you would meet any other man or woman.
hey let's not go so hard on this guy. deank you can try some of the dating websites...some of them carry profiles who are open about their transgender identity. but as what the other girls are saying perhaps you should have a very good thought on why you are interested in transgendered girls only?
Your post just screams fetish.
Why do you want a transwoman specifically?
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@Deank there are hundreds of Trans dating sites on the web. This is not one of them.. Susan's is a support group. You are more than welcome to stay as an ally. But please refrain for using it a a pickup site.
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OK, but it's going to cost you. Cash and most credit cards accepted, checks must have already cleared.
Many transwoman would really hate to be admired because they are trans. Therefore it is often considered offensive to ask to date transwomen in a general transgender forum. But I know some transwomen who don't mind. You'd better go to a trans dating site, I guess.
Whoa everyone's so quick to judge... ::)
Who searches for a 'transsexual' to have a relationship with? This infuriates me! Unless you can give a good reason which is unlikely. I am so fed up with '->-bleeped-<- ->-bleeped-<-s' I am seriously thinking about becoming lesbian (currently bi). I have been told I was the best of both worlds...where I responded go f' yourself. I have been lied to about motives of how someone found me only to find out later they guy was a sissy and ->-bleeped-<- ->-bleeped-<- (after I started falling for him). Sorry about the anger here but I am seriously starting to get sick of this crap.
Quote from: carrietg on February 17, 2011, 06:50:26 PM
Many transwoman would really hate to be admired because they are trans.
^ This
Quote from: rejennyrated on February 12, 2011, 09:03:14 AM
Your problem in a nutshell is that those of us who have completed the journey do not regard ourselves as transsexual. We are either women or men who happen to have an unusual past.
^ And This