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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Topic started by: Maddie Secutura on February 16, 2011, 08:03:06 PM

Title: You used to be a man and that would make me gay if we dated.
Post by: Maddie Secutura on February 16, 2011, 08:03:06 PM
Here is how you combat that:

"That girl right there used to be a child.  I guess that would make you a pedophile."
Title: Re: You used to be a man and that would make me gay if we dated.
Post by: cynthialee on February 16, 2011, 08:53:24 PM
LOL
:D
Title: Re: You used to be a man and that would make me gay if we dated.
Post by: Lee on February 16, 2011, 09:56:02 PM
And that girl was way more of a child than you were a man ::)
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Post by: tekla on February 16, 2011, 09:59:28 PM
A witty come-back might make you feel a little better, but you're still not going to get the date.
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Post by: Karla on February 16, 2011, 09:59:50 PM
Quote from: Maddie & Lee
"That girl right there used to be a child.  I guess that would make you a pedophile."
And that girl was way more of a child than you were a man ::)
Wow, indeed!
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Post by: Elijah3291 on February 16, 2011, 10:07:41 PM
wouldn't that make everyone who is dating anyone a pedophile then?
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Post by: Maddie Secutura on February 17, 2011, 01:55:43 AM
Quote from: Elijah on February 16, 2011, 10:07:41 PM
wouldn't that make everyone who is dating anyone a pedophile then?

Only if the original logic holds true.
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Post by: rejennyrated on February 17, 2011, 02:19:06 AM
or if you want to be a bit ruder...

"Yeah the key phrase here should be USED TO BE, but unfortunately it turns out that you still are a brainless moron who doesn't understand the meaning of the past tense. You used to be attractive too.
Title: Re: You used to be a man and that would make me gay if we dated.
Post by: Debra on February 17, 2011, 11:03:07 AM
Quote from: Maddie Secutura on February 16, 2011, 08:03:06 PM
Here is how you combat that:

"That girl right there used to be a child.  I guess that would make you a pedophile."

haha I like it

Quote from: Elijah on February 16, 2011, 10:07:41 PM
wouldn't that make everyone who is dating anyone a pedophile then?

That's the point. It makes their suggestion seem quit idiotic.
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Post by: tekla on February 17, 2011, 12:05:18 PM
I would think the perfect comeback would be to say "yeah, and you used to be cool."
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Post by: Trans Truth on February 17, 2011, 07:12:45 PM
Very smart response!
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Post by: cute becky on February 17, 2011, 07:42:38 PM
DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA WHAT YOU HAVE DONE TO
ME ANSWERING THAT QUESTION THE WAY YOU DID.
FOR ALL THE COUNTLESS NIGHTS AND
DAYS PONDERING AND SOLE SEARCHING I DONE.

BRILLIANT.
I AM SO HAPPY WITH YOU RIGHT NOW
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Post by: Nicky on February 17, 2011, 08:12:08 PM
Absolutely!! You have such a gay vibe about you, so lets go.
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Post by: V M on February 17, 2011, 08:42:56 PM
I'm glad you brought this up dear, I know you're a bit shy... So what time should I be ready?
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Post by: VeryGnawty on February 18, 2011, 06:54:06 AM
I would probably just say something like:

"I didn't know you were gay!"
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Post by: JennX on February 18, 2011, 05:46:05 PM
or... I've always been female. I just was not born biologically/anatomically female.  ;)

That usually makes them think things over for a few minutes.  ;D
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Post by: cute becky on February 19, 2011, 01:37:20 PM
being i once had means i know what it likes.....
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Post by: Apricot on February 19, 2011, 06:36:28 PM
Quote from: Maddie Secutura on February 16, 2011, 08:03:06 PM
Here is how you combat that:

"That girl right there used to be a child.  I guess that would make you a pedophile."
Awsome. I will invent a situation just to use that line if I have to [Knowing me, watch it come out all wrong].
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Post by: ~RoadToTrista~ on February 19, 2011, 06:43:11 PM
Ugh, hope I can remember that 1 lol
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Post by: Chastance on February 21, 2011, 08:30:00 AM
Quote from: Valeriedances on February 21, 2011, 06:16:35 AM
I think it's humorous but I dont believe its going to change anyone's mind.

The best case for me is, 'I've always been a woman. I had a birth condition that needed correcting.'

But if the statement is out there already then its too late. The person has already made up their mind.

True, a lot of straight men fear the gay and just shut you out before you can...explain your womanhood.
I'm thinking about just saying I was born male when outing myself because it's true I was born male but I'm a girl, and saying I used to be a guy is just a lie, and saying I'm trans or was born transsexual has too much bad baggage attached to it.
Actually now I'm wondering how many women born transsexual were always girls verses the ones who used to be guys? And the opposite for men born transsexual.
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Post by: Xyrenth on February 21, 2011, 08:55:55 AM
Meow! Awesome. :D
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Post by: Debra on February 22, 2011, 12:33:06 PM
Quote from: Valeriedances on February 21, 2011, 06:16:35 AM
The best case for me is, 'I've always been a woman. I had a birth condition that needed correcting.'

I agree , I like that statement too and it's how I most often introduce it
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Post by: Lissie on February 28, 2011, 08:35:54 AM
The best comeback Ever! Love it!