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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: suzannemarie on March 02, 2011, 01:48:22 AM

Title: Relatiions/Friendship with women
Post by: suzannemarie on March 02, 2011, 01:48:22 AM
As I get older, I am realizing that the only type of relationship I would want with a woman is friendship. I've always envied how deep & intimate women's friendship is ,even as a kid. I don`t think I could have ever have been a good boyfriend.
Title: Re: Relatiions/Friendship with women
Post by: annette on March 03, 2011, 06:14:42 PM
Hi Suzannemarie

Friendship with women...well, it depends on the woman.
I have a friend for more than 20 years, we can share a lot of things and tell every little or big secret to eachother.
There is a lot of faith, i know that everything I tell her as a secret,  will be  a secret for ever.
But on the other hand... I've seen a lot of friendsships with woman destroyed by gossips, jalousie, lying, take over the BF.

I also had male friends, a deep friendship, with support and trust and being there for eachother in tough times.
So, like I said before, for me it depends on the person, not the gender. You have to choose/select your friends carefully.

'hugs
annette
Title: Re: Relatiions/Friendship with women
Post by: Debra on March 04, 2011, 02:02:32 PM
I had female friends growing up and that's all they were.

Now after coming out, I have 10x as many female friends. I seem to fit in pretty well with straight women that way. =)