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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: joshany12 on March 11, 2011, 05:46:56 AM

Title: just told mum
Post by: joshany12 on March 11, 2011, 05:46:56 AM
ive been building upto this for a few days now and i finally sent her the letter i had written.
we started talking and she seems supportive, but just as we got talking she had a visitor turn up at the house.
our talk got stopped and i just gave her a hug and told her i loved her, and left it there.
i know shes gonna need time, i feel so much better or telling her, but honestly the waiting is horrible.
Title: Re: just told mum
Post by: Caith on March 11, 2011, 06:30:38 AM
The waiting is difficult, it's true.  But you've just taken the very important first step, and that's an unbelievably HUGE accomplishment.  Congratulations to you!!  ;D
Title: Re: just told mum
Post by: Mrs Erocse on March 11, 2011, 07:43:15 AM
Yes, Congratulations to you! Wishing you good things. Glad to hear your mom is receptive.

Big Hugs.

Roxy & Patty
Title: Re: just told mum
Post by: SiobhanB on March 11, 2011, 02:50:53 PM
Congratulations, this is a HUGE step accomplished!

You won't believe the difference being out makes - it doesn't make it go away, but at least you're no longer hiding who you are.

I'm only a few weeks ahead of you so I know how you're feeling.

Siobhan.
Title: Re: just told mum
Post by: joshany12 on March 12, 2011, 03:15:22 PM
well 2 days in and things are going well, not telling rest of the family for a while but mum knows, which is a huge weight off my sholders. managed to tell her before therapy started too which will make things easier in the future  :)
Title: Re: just told mum
Post by: Padma on March 12, 2011, 04:38:58 PM
That's great - and I'm really enjoying this wave of people recently (myself included) who have told family and got a more positive response than they expected - it's very heartening, and encouraging to others too xx
Title: Re: just told mum
Post by: AmberM on March 13, 2011, 01:03:52 AM
I'm extremely happy knowing you are loved and accepted exactly as you are by your mom.