I have a huge sitation! Ive been talking to this guy for awhile now any i really like him..ect ect.. He really likes me too. The thing is, ive never met him and we met on a social networking site. He lives 1 hour away and we talked on the phone a lot also. Well, tonight, he brings up coming to see me, which is very overwhelming for me at this moment in my life! I never had a boyfriend and he will be the first! but what to say? How do i be a girlfriend?? i feel like im just going to be the "awkward one" who just really doesn't know whats going on. Iveeee also..may have told him that i had boobies, which is a big problem speaking i havent started hrt as of yet. He knows im trans and hes seen pics of me, but he had no idea and was cool with it when i told him which led him to ask do i have boobies ect ect. I start hrt next month so, i really wasnt planning on meeting him as of yet, but soon after they kicked in....what to dooo?? he is a really great guy and i really like him a lot!
Give yourself more time to be ready mentally and physically! Maybe a month or two, and get to know this man better. Please when you meet him, do so in a very public place, and go nowhere with him until at least a third or forth date! :) Love you Sister!
Thnx lots!!
Just let him know you're not ready to meet yet.
Ask him if he's willing to wait. If he is, then he's probably really interested in you.
Meanwhile you can continue to chat and talk on the phone and get to know him more.
I'm sure you said you have breasts to keep him interested in you but I advise you to be 100% honest always.
And when you do met for the first time, make it a public place. Do not go any place private. That can be asking for trouble.
Quote from: RoseBlossom on March 21, 2011, 11:13:14 PM
I have a huge sitation! Ive been talking to this guy for awhile now any i really like him..ect ect.. He really likes me too. The thing is, ive never met him and we met on a social networking site. He lives 1 hour away and we talked on the phone a lot also. Well, tonight, he brings up coming to see me, which is very overwhelming for me at this moment in my life! I never had a boyfriend and he will be the first! but what to say? How do i be a girlfriend?? i feel like im just going to be the "awkward one" who just really doesn't know whats going on. Iveeee also..may have told him that i had boobies, which is a big problem speaking i havent started hrt as of yet. He knows im trans and hes seen pics of me, but he had no idea and was cool with it when i told him which led him to ask do i have boobies ect ect. I start hrt next month so, i really wasnt planning on meeting him as of yet, but soon after they kicked in....what to dooo?? he is a really great guy and i really like him a lot!
wow! What a flash back to the past! This is a good reason why it is better to always tell the truth...i learned from experience and your experience sounds like me before hrt. My advice to you wqould be to START HRT, thast should be the morst important thing in your life, dont do drugs,,,,AND just be honest with him....tell him whats going on, that your getting ready to start hormones and not having boobs is a very self concious thing for you, if it is.......want to know something? Boobies use to be important to me too, but im over it and dont even really check to see if they have grown.....now im focused on watching for waist, and hip changes....thatS WHAT IS IMPORTANT TO ME! gOOD LUCK, and let us know how it goes!!!! oh yeah, dont focus on being a girflfriend or how to be a girlfriend, focus on getting to know your prospective partner.....lemme know how it goes,,,
Thanks all for the replies!! Hugsss! And ill keep everyone updated! :)