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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: JessicaR on March 28, 2011, 10:16:42 PM

Title: A magical moment with my Mom
Post by: JessicaR on March 28, 2011, 10:16:42 PM
  So tomorrow I'm testifying before the Rhode Island House Judiciary Committee to support adding, "gender identity and expression" to the state's Hate Crimes Monitoring Act. I wanted to get something nice to wear so I went shopping and invited my mom..

  After we got home, I tried on what I bought and asked her what she thought... Until then she had never seen me in a skirt and heels.... We talked for awhile about styles of shoes we liked and disliked; she looked me up and down and said, "hold on a minute." After a minute or two in her closet, she came out with a cardigan and said, "This was a little  too big for me but it'll look nice on you." It was perfect :-) She looked a little more and gave me a girdle after I said how concerned I was about my belly... 

  For the first time in my life, I felt like I was her daughter. She looked at me and smiled (and said that my skirt was too short, lol) and I saw pride in her eyes. Because of her I feel empowered and confident about tomorrow... I love you, Mom.

 
Title: Re: A magical moment with my Mom
Post by: V M on March 28, 2011, 10:46:05 PM
That is awesome and very touching Jessica  :)

Hugs

- Virginia
Title: Re: A magical moment with my Mom
Post by: Janet_Girl on March 28, 2011, 11:26:48 PM
Jessica that is so awesome.  A true Mother/Daughter moment.
Title: Re: A magical moment with my Mom
Post by: Giselle Marie on March 28, 2011, 11:30:33 PM
QuoteFor the first time in my life, I felt like I was her daughter. She looked at me and smiled (and said that my skirt was too short, lol) and I saw pride in her eyes.

What a wonderful feeling that must of been Jessica, hope all goes well for you tomorrow

Giselle x
Title: Re: A magical moment with my Mom
Post by: Melody Maia on March 29, 2011, 12:26:15 AM
That sounds very special Jessica. Good luck as you testify.
Title: Re: A magical moment with my Mom
Post by: Cindy on March 29, 2011, 03:56:08 AM
Nice Jessica, I hope the talk goes well

Cindy
Title: Re: A magical moment with my Mom
Post by: justmeinoz on March 29, 2011, 03:59:26 AM
Wow! That must have felt fantastic.  Hope everything goes well at the meeting.
Title: Re: A magical moment with my Mom
Post by: Kim 526 on March 29, 2011, 05:31:42 AM
Good for you for testifying. You go girl!
Title: Re: A magical moment with my Mom
Post by: annette on March 29, 2011, 06:40:12 AM
Hi Jessica

A lovely story, I was reading it with a big smile on my face.
Good luck with your testifying.

hugs
Annette
Title: Re: A magical moment with my Mom
Post by: Colleen Ireland on March 29, 2011, 07:37:55 AM
Wow, Jessica, how wonderful!  And what a wonderful thing YOU are doing!  Break a leg, girl, I'll pray you do well (I know you will).   You do us proud.
Title: Re: A magical moment with my Mom
Post by: Caith on March 29, 2011, 08:05:45 AM
Jessica, that's a moment where many of us can only wish we had the same opportunity.  Your mom deserves a ton of hugs and kisses from everyone here.  Congratulations on appearing and speaking as you're doing.  The public needs to understand we're normal, intelligent, well-mannered people, and that's how we wish to be seen and treated.  I'm *so* proud of you (and your Mom!) right now.  :)