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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: Zash on March 31, 2011, 06:24:32 AM

Title: HELP! IDEAS!
Post by: Zash on March 31, 2011, 06:24:32 AM
Hi guys. Basically I need all of your help and ideas. :D

Okay, I am 18, and i'll be celebrating my second anniversary with my girlfriend this June. Thing is, I actually planned to bring her for a sky dining experience. She somehow found out about this, and told me that she doesn't wanna go for it since she really doesn't want me to spend so much money on this. She told me that she doesn't want me spending so much money at this age. I'm very disappointed, actually, as I planned this thinking tht she'd love it. She told me tht she'd love to go for sky dining, but not at this age (she feels that maybe sky dining would be more enjoyable a little later, maybe in our twentys). & she's not allowed to stay out too late either. Her parents usually wants her back by 7pm, latest 8pm, if she goes out. Our relationship is very rocky right now, by the way. & I'm trying my very best to win her back. I live in Singapore, if that helps.

Basically, i desperately need ideas and suggestions as to how i can celebrate my second anniversary with her and at the same time how to win her back. This means alot to me. I know i'm young, and have alot to see in life. But at this very moment, she means alot to me, and I really want her in my life. She's really not the hopeless romantic kind. She's really young at heart (like a small girl, really) & she likes adventurous stuffs, like go carts and all tht. I really need help, so do help me. Thanks.
Title: Re: HELP! IDEAS!
Post by: justmeinoz on March 31, 2011, 07:10:27 AM
How about a ride on the giant ferris wheel you have there, at night, watching the lights? Should be romantic. Especially if you bring flowers. ;)
Title: Re: HELP! IDEAS!
Post by: JohnAlex on March 31, 2011, 12:32:03 PM
Maybe you could try talking ot her some more about it and have you both together come up with an idea.  Afterall, it's the anniversary of both of you, it's like it's her surprise birthday. 

and personally, I don't like surprises, but maybe she does.