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Community Conversation => Transitioning => Coming out of the closet => Topic started by: Jade_is_awesome on April 01, 2011, 03:27:30 PM

Title: How do I come out the closet?
Post by: Jade_is_awesome on April 01, 2011, 03:27:30 PM
Im wearing a black skirt, a yellow top, and pink panties. Do I wait untill everyone comes home and just kindea...not change? do I write a letter? Do I just confront her and say it?
Title: Re: How do I come out the closet?
Post by: Robert Scott on April 01, 2011, 03:45:12 PM
Everyone has to decided for themselves how to do it ... I don't think anyone can tell you what will work best....however it's nerve racking for us all
Title: Re: How do I come out the closet?
Post by: Janet_Girl on April 01, 2011, 03:56:07 PM
Quote from: Rob on April 01, 2011, 03:45:12 PM
Everyone has to decided for themselves how to do it ... I don't think anyone can tell you what will work best....however it's nerve racking for us all

I could not agree more.  You know them better than anyone.  There are several pieces of material that you may wish to see in the "Reference Library".
Title: Re: How do I come out the closet?
Post by: spacial on April 08, 2011, 11:45:48 AM
Jade.

How did things go?

Did you stick to that plan, or try something else?
Title: Re: How do I come out the closet?
Post by: Jade_is_awesome on April 08, 2011, 02:59:39 PM
Quote from: spacial on April 08, 2011, 11:45:48 AM
Jade.

How did things go?

Did you stick to that plan, or try something else?

I took off my sisters clothes,walked over to my Best friend's house, and started watched him sext with his GF
Title: Re: How do I come out the closet?
Post by: spacial on April 08, 2011, 03:17:25 PM
Quote from: Jade_is_awesome on April 08, 2011, 02:59:39 PM
I took off my sisters clothes,walked over to my Best friend's house, and started watched him sext with his GF

Probably best. People can get upset with you using their things.

Have to thought about just telling your parents?

Or perhaps, there's a councellor in school you could talk to?
Title: Re: How do I come out the closet?
Post by: nickikim on April 08, 2011, 03:39:45 PM
Just don`t come out in a yellow top, yellow doesn`tlook good on anyone.
Title: Re: How do I come out the closet?
Post by: Jade_is_awesome on April 08, 2011, 05:46:59 PM
Quote from: spacial on April 08, 2011, 03:17:25 PM
Probably best. People can get upset with you using their things.

Have to thought about just telling your parents?

Or perhaps, there's a councellor in school you could talk to?

I've thought about it, I've even had oppurtunities where im about to just say it then I just shy away im scared.
Title: Re: How do I come out the closet?
Post by: Jade_is_awesome on April 08, 2011, 05:55:28 PM
Quote from: nickikim on April 08, 2011, 03:39:45 PM
Just don`t come out in a yellow top, yellow doesn`tlook good on anyone.

I know I've moved on to bigger and better things by which I mean red!
Title: Re: How do I come out the closet?
Post by: spacial on April 09, 2011, 04:50:49 AM
Quote from: Jade_is_awesome on April 08, 2011, 05:46:59 PM
I've thought about it, I've even had oppurtunities where im about to just say it then I just shy away im scared.

If it means anything, I and I know, a lot of others have felt the same.

You know, so well. You are without doubt. You know you need to come out about this. But there is that nagging feeling, in the back og your mind, that if you do, the world will colapse around you.

I can't give you a decent solution. Perhaps, look out for someone whom you can trust. But that will take time.
Title: Re: How do I come out the closet?
Post by: Jade_is_awesome on April 09, 2011, 09:04:15 AM
Quote from: spacial on April 09, 2011, 04:50:49 AM
If it means anything, I and I know, a lot of others have felt the same.

You know, so well. You are without doubt. You know you need to come out about this. But there is that nagging feeling, in the back og your mind, that if you do, the world will colapse around you.

I can't give you a decent solution. Perhaps, look out for someone whom you can trust. But that will take time.
ok I will