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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: Melody Maia on April 07, 2011, 09:38:48 AM

Title: I AM Melody Maia! It's official!
Post by: Melody Maia on April 07, 2011, 09:38:48 AM
Melody Maia is no longer a username I made up one day. She is now officially, legally ME! I can't believe it!
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Post by: Janet_Girl on April 07, 2011, 09:49:02 AM
*Dances the Happy Dance with the one, only and true Melody Maia*
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Post by: Robert Scott on April 07, 2011, 09:52:02 AM
Congratulations!  I am sure that it's a wonderful feeling!!!
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Post by: cynthialee on April 07, 2011, 10:02:07 AM
YAY!!! I am sooo happy for you.
For so many years you walked around with the wrong name. Now you have a proper womans name. The lie is untold.
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Post by: Gabby on April 07, 2011, 10:16:10 AM
Absolutely fantastic, I'm happy for you :D
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Post by: jussie on April 07, 2011, 10:17:18 AM
Congratulations, must feel good now :)
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Post by: Melody Maia on April 07, 2011, 10:36:15 AM
It still hasn't sunk in yet. I am sitting in my local Social Security Administration Office in a bit of a daze! It will finally be real when I get my new drivers license and I see it printed next to a photo of me.
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Post by: Princess Rachel on April 07, 2011, 10:55:33 AM
Pleased to 'officially' meet you Melody :)  it's a very pretty name :)
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Post by: MarinaM on April 07, 2011, 11:27:48 AM
Quote from: Melody Maia on April 07, 2011, 10:36:15 AM
It still hasn't sunk in yet. I am sitting in my local Social Security Administration Office in a bit of a daze! It will finally be real when I get my new drivers license and I see it printed next to a photo of me.

Dance, Maia dance! It's going to be amazing!
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Post by: SiobhanB on April 07, 2011, 12:28:19 PM
Congratulations Ms Maia, you must be SO happy!

Siobhan.
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Post by: Caith on April 07, 2011, 01:02:00 PM
Congratulations, darling lady.  Now there is no denying who you are, in any way, shape, or fashion.  When you say to someone "My name is Melody" that is EXACTLY what you mean.
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Post by: Melody Maia on April 07, 2011, 01:19:42 PM
Thank you ladies. To paraphrase my sig, every missing piece of me, I have found in Melody.
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Post by: rejennyrated on April 07, 2011, 01:22:46 PM
Way to go Melody - I do recall that that's a nice feeling.
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Post by: Padma on April 07, 2011, 01:53:18 PM
Ace - the song-and-dance is ended, but the Melody lingers on ;D xx
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Post by: Melody Maia on April 07, 2011, 04:55:00 PM
@Yoxi: good one.

I do want to add the following in honor of him though...

Domingo: 2/10/71-4/7/11. You protected me and kept me safe. You gave me great friends, made me a part of a special family and a son. You faced the world when I could not. Yes, you were sometimes angry and stand-offish, but you were also funny and loyal. In the end, you sacrificed yourself so that I might live. Thank you and Godspeed.
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Post by: bethw on April 07, 2011, 05:58:20 PM
Woohoo Melody. Congratulations. I mean this respectfully RIP Domingo and thank you for protecting her.
Hugs
Beth
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Post by: Janet_Girl on April 07, 2011, 06:05:29 PM
I did a similar thing when mine came through.  I posted an honest to gods obituary on my old MySpace Page.

RIP Domingo.  We will care for Melody now.  She is a guild-sister now.
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Post by: Tyler on April 07, 2011, 07:16:36 PM
I am so happy for you! :)
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Post by: Sandy on April 07, 2011, 07:57:32 PM
When you go in for your drivers license, get two copies.

You'll end up staring the print off the first one!  :D ;D

Congratulations!

-Sandy
Title: Re: I AM Melody Maia! It's official!
Post by: Melody Maia on April 07, 2011, 08:56:10 PM
Thanks ladies. Your words have really touched me. Sandy, you never cease to make me laugh and make me cry (in a good way).

I didn't get much sleep and was running on adrenaline. I am starting to crash and get emotional. I need the release as I didn't allow it earlier in order to get stuff done and not ruin my makeup! LOL. I haven't had a chance to be still and think about what I just did and how it will affect my life, but it is starting to sink in.
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Post by: LordKAT on April 07, 2011, 11:17:46 PM
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fthmg.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fv415%2Fco_sweetie%2Fth_01snooopy.gif&hash=af27b7c963c61bcfcb9a0ca1a4e1515fac6956bc)

Grats dear lady.
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Post by: japple on April 08, 2011, 01:04:01 AM
Congratulations Melody! Now you have to change your username to prevent identity theft :)
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Post by: azSam on April 08, 2011, 01:59:03 AM
Congrats Hon. Sorry I didn't congratulate you in person. Been sick, but starting to get better now!

Congrats again!
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Post by: annette on April 08, 2011, 03:59:33 AM
Hi Melody

Congrats, girl.
A big step froward.

love
Annette
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Post by: Cindy on April 08, 2011, 04:48:08 AM
Fantastic News Melody.

Feel for you

Cindy
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Post by: Rock_chick on April 08, 2011, 05:14:10 AM
hi five
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Post by: justmeinoz on April 08, 2011, 08:42:39 AM
 :icon_woowoo: :eusa_dance: Congratulations Melody.
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Post by: Melody Maia on April 08, 2011, 09:16:22 AM
Thanks again to all of you who have chimed in. Special shout-out out to the ladies on the overnight shift! lol.
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Post by: Randi on April 08, 2011, 06:04:54 PM
I am so happy for you Melody.
Randi
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Post by: JenniL on April 08, 2011, 09:37:50 PM
Congratulations Melody. I am very happy for you  :)

Jennifer
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Post by: Lacey Lynne on April 08, 2011, 11:41:35 PM
Wonderful, Melody, wonderful!

:D   Lacey Lynne
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Post by: Tesseract Allen on April 08, 2011, 11:43:10 PM
Congradulations from a forum lurker!
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Post by: jainie marlena on April 09, 2011, 11:58:23 PM
It sound strange, but hearing this news even make me happy for you. you go girl!
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Post by: Sad Girl on April 10, 2011, 01:21:52 AM
Hi Miss Maia..
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Post by: annette on April 10, 2011, 05:20:27 PM
Hi Melody

I think in your earlier post I was reading you have Spanish blood, so this will not be hard for you to read.

Es un nombre bonito por un chica mas bonita.
Feliz senorita Maia.

Hugs and kisses
Annette
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Post by: Joelene9 on April 10, 2011, 11:17:40 PM
Melody,
  Congrats!  You look gorgeous in your avatar! Hugs!
  It is uncertain if I will change my name to Joelene due to my age, I like the name though.  I am still presenting as male, but that may change as I get more satisfied with my changing appearance and there are some potential serious health issues I am facing now, just waiting for the latest blood draw results.  I will let you all know.
  Joelene.
Title: Re: I AM Melody Maia! It's official!
Post by: Melody Maia on April 11, 2011, 01:12:35 AM
Quote from: annette on April 10, 2011, 05:20:27 PM
Hi Melody

I think in your earlier post I was reading you have Spanish blood, so this will not be hard for you to read.

Es un nombre bonito por un chica mas bonita.
Feliz senorita Maia.

Hugs and kisses
Annette

Sí, you soy latina y entiendo español. Muchas gracias!

Jolene, good luck with the blood test results. I hope you do get to experience one day the affirmation of changing your name to your chosen one.
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Post by: Eleanor on April 12, 2011, 10:53:45 PM
You don't know me, and I only just signed up here, but I still feel obliged to offer my congratulations. :D Changing your name and title here is as easy as drawing up and signing a very simple document and requesting reissues of personal documents with your new name, so my name has been changed from the moment I came to terms with being transgendered. I was already Elly before even my wardrobe changed, and I always feel terribly sorry hearing about people like you in other countries who are already girls both inside and out, but are still forced to be saddled with a name that has all sorts of painful memories. It was exciting enough for me changing my name, so I can't begin to imagine how wonderful it is for you now. Congratulations, Melody! ^^

(Incidentally, your name is one I strongly considered too. So pretty!)
Title: Re: I AM Melody Maia! It's official!
Post by: Melody Maia on April 13, 2011, 12:11:07 AM
Welcome Elly. I hope you find Susan's as supportive and essential as I have found it.

It can indeed be a struggle in certain states in the US, but not all of them. It is like a collection of small countries with their own laws and traditions that have been combined into one larger country.

Yes, I am female inside and out (with the exception of SRS), but don't feel bad about the hoops I had to jump through to change my name. The harder the struggle, the sweeter the victory!
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Post by: Mrs Erocse on April 13, 2011, 12:19:38 AM
Congratulations Miss Melody!!!
We are so happy for you!

Many Hugs!
Patty