I plan on coming out soon. Because I still live with my family (dad and sister) and not independent yet I have to come out to them first so I can actually get started with transitioning. I am so terrified of the very thought of it (I'm sure you guys have heard this before though from other people, and I'm sure you were all scared to an extent too). I have realized finally I cannot live like this anymore. I was thinking the best way to come out to my family is through a letter. But I just can't seem to start one. I don't know what to say. Any letter samples I can refer to? Also how to stay calm while coming out and actually go through with it and not freeze up in fear?
You might want to look at these links.
COMING OUT for TRANSSEXUALS (https://www.susans.org/reference/gfam7.html)
TRANSSEXUALISM: Information for the Family (https://www.susans.org/reference/gfam6.html)
TELLING YOUR PARENTS - Part 1 (https://www.susans.org/reference/gfam4.html)
TRANSSEXUALS AND THEIR PARENTS - PART II (https://www.susans.org/reference/gfam5.html)