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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: quinn on April 23, 2011, 01:51:06 PM

Title: trans-friendly roommates?
Post by: quinn on April 23, 2011, 01:51:06 PM
Hey everyone,

I've been trying to find an apartment of my own (currently living at my parents' house) for a while now, and I haven't been able to find anything within a reasonable distance from my work (don't have a car yet) that's affordable for me. So, I need a roommate. My parents are pressuring me to move in at a all-girls apartment (they don't know I'm trans, and if they did know, they would shoot me if it was legal!), which I really want to avoid. I want to share an apartment with a guy (gay or straight, doesn't matter to me), but I'm not sure how to tell potential future roommates that I'm trans, since I'm pre-everything and don't even own a binder yet.

Does anyone know of any roommate-finder websites that are trans-friendly, or at least have some option to list that you're trans? I've set up a profile on a generic roommates website, and put in the comments section that I'm a pre-op, pre-everything transman, but you have to have a subscription to view other people's comments, it's expensive so most people don't have one.
Title: Re: trans-friendly roommates?
Post by: Anon on April 23, 2011, 02:27:10 PM
You can try http://www.prideroommates.com/home.php (http://www.prideroommates.com/home.php)

Craigslist or Kijiji may be useful as well. If your city has an LGBT newspaper you could post an ad there, but that would probably cost.
Title: Re: trans-friendly roommates?
Post by: julian6 on April 23, 2011, 04:24:08 PM
Though it doesn't sound like it, OKCupid might be worth a shot.  A lot of people on there are just looking for friends, even though it is kind of a "dating site" ... just be very specific about what you want.