Hey everyone
Well I'll start by introducing myself as using my alias FlappyBird and I am in decision mode about transitioning or not.
Im here because I was posting a blog on another forum and my girlfriend found it, she was aware of how i've been feeling for a long time and knew I had a blog and knew I didnt want her reading it but ultimately she did some digging and found it.
Quite impressive really, she just found my skype name and googled it and it lead her directly to the old forum I was on.
I cant say I blame her for doing it but there was ALOT of things I didnt want her to know and its really hit me hard, that was one of my only safe places where I could let my female persona free without fear of being judged or hurting anyone.
Anyway as you can probably tell me and my girlfriend arent seeing eye to eye with the whole trans thing at all, but I'll go into that in detail some other time.
So here I am and im looking forward to meeting you all!
Hi Flappybird! Great name! Welcome to the site. As to your situation, what a mess! Sorry you have to sort that out. There is information here about keeping your affairs private, I'm sure you'll find it. Hugs, Tracey
Hi Flappybird, :icon_wave:
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Hugs and Love,
Janet
Welcome Flappybird. Love the name!!
I'm sorry your girlfriend and you aren't seeing eye to eye. It'll take time and whatever happens we're all here to support!
Welcome Flappybird
Nice to meet you.
Is your friend someone who is working by the cyberpolice?
Anyway, she is smart.
Well, it's saving you a coming out to her.
Feel yourself at home, you're with friends now and we are supporting people.
Looking forward to your future posts.
hugs
Annette